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I dont feel happy, nothing feels interesting any more, what is this?

  • i have been in bed from past 1 year i rarely get out of bed i feel tired all the time nothing interest me anymore i have become anti-social and i only talk to few of my frnds but only on net, i dont even use my cell anymore. i tried to do alevels and its been 4 years now and i still am trying to do it i gave alevels exams last year but failed because i didnt study and idk i just cant focus on anything! i think im depressed but my parents say you are not depressed you are LAZY! and its not that im dumb i am intelligent i in olevels or at the start of alevels i was doing SO great! 5 years ago i had a very serious accident and it was my first accident and my friend was with me and he barely made it and i was walking and i had few cuts and bruises and i was walking so DRs said u are fine but later i found out that my few bones were broken but they healed on their own. but they swelled so i got treatment for it later and my spine was injured too and i got its treatment too it was painful and it took 1.8 year to get better. after that accident i dont know what happened to me i slowly started screwing things up and i started getting depressed and got extremely sensitive and i was on SO many meds for 3 years but it was temporary solution so i stoped it and i tried to deal with it on my own and 1 to 2 years ago i was SO hopeless that i tried to kill myself but didnt die then after few days i had a fight with my parents and may be just to get back at them or make them suffer i again tried to kill myself but again didnt die and then i met a girl she was in my school and we became friends and with her i felt happy and my life started making sense and i was hopeful again and we became friends and she told me she was single n i thought i should take things slow and i knew i was in love with her and before her i have never felt that way so it was my first and last love but later when i told her that i love u she started ignoring me and we got disconnected and i again become what i was before her but i kept trying to get her and then i found out she lied to me she had a bf all along and she was pretending to be someone which she was not infront of me and she used to do it just for fun or to get alot of attention but after knowing that i didnt believe it i knew it was true but y heart didnt accept and i did alot of stupid things for her just to prove my love so that she can be mine but it didnt help and whole school started talking about us and she started rumors that i texted her that i am gona kill myself if she dont love me back and she is scared of me that i am gona rape her and the whole school was with her but few people knew all those were lies and they were with me but it was painful for me because every other person even people i barely know used to come to me and say how r u feeling and cmon man its just a girl get over her dont kill yourself for her etc and it was like we both were under spot light and she used to pretend that she hated it but she enjoyed every single second of it and then the worst things our teachers came to know about this and they started saying things whats wrong with you why are you harassing her? or why do you wana kill yourself over a girl etc and i knew its over and i left school and later i tried to talk to her over texts that why did she do it and she said that you ruined my life and i hate you and you makes me sick etc and i just let go of her and i still love her and im still waiting for her i just want her to love me. and i again tried to kill myself when i felt that she is gone and im alone and there is nothing for me in this world but this time it was different i took all my meds at once and the DRs told my parents that he is gona die and i saw y family going crazy and crying like crazy people and then i realised wth i did but thank God i didnt die and my liver was gona fail but it just slowed down so after few weeks of treatment i got better and know i dont go to school i dont go out im always tired i dont talk to many people coz all my frnds have moved on and nothing makes me happy nothing interest me anymore and i love to play games watch seasons and movies and i still do it but when i do it its like 5% interest and i try to study but its like someone is torturing me because nothing makes sense i dont see anything point in doing it and im SO hopeless and i feel like i die a natural death and it will be better for everyone! and embarrassing thing do deal with pain and loneliness and that bad feeling i masturbate ALOT like minimum 8 to 12 times a day and max 15 to 20+ times. and i dont eat properly because i dont feel like eating and i dont even shave or take shower because it seems so hard to do and i just dont wana do it and i dont even go to lou until i feel that i am gona explode SO what should i do how can i fix it? are there any meds which can help? im already on meds and my dr said you are not depressed but he dont know my history he is my gp :/ so plz help me

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    if you are on medication and it isnt working you may need a different medication if your doctor isnt helping you then see another doctor and get a second opinion really talk to the doctor and tell them exactly how you feel this may be difficult but it is important to let it out it doesn't matter if you cry do that if it makes you feel better ask for referals to see a psychologist and a psychiatrist if you still arent getting help go to the hospital it helps alot to get out of the house and take a walk every day getting some sun will make you feel slightly better. join an activity class like music art or dancing anything you think you would enjoy you may have to force yourself to go at first but you will get used to it and eventually like the company and exercise. if you think about killing or hurting yourself go to emergency at the hospital try to keep in contact with people talk to someone every day a friend a family member or just smile at people walking past on the street and say hi, it is important to feel connected to other people. good luck :-)

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If I could use only one sentence to point you toward lasting happiness it would be this: True happiness can only be found in God, for only He can meet the deepest yearnings of our hearts. Let me explain. You see, we aren't on this earth by accident. God created us, and He put us here for a reason: to know Him and to enjoy His presence in our lives, both now and throughout eternity. God even created us with an empty place in our hearts—an empty place that He alone can fill. The Bible says, "He has also set eternity in the hearts of men" (Ecclesiastes 3:11). Whenever we try to fill that empty place with anything or anyone other than God, we are bound to fail. No matter how many things we have or how successful we are, that empty place is still there. But when we come to Christ, we discover that God loves us, and He makes us part of His family. More than that, He comes to live within us by His Holy Spirit. Think of it: God wants you to be part of His family forever—beginning now. By faith turn to God and tell Him that you know you need Him. Then open your heart and life to Christ and ask Him to fill the empty places in your life. Jesus promised, "Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives" (John 14:27). Turn to Christ today and discover the joy and peace He alone can give. http://peacewithgod.jesus.net/

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Hey man, sounds like you got dealt a shitty hand. As my english teacher put it, "Life is all about disapointment, and learning to cope with loss." It's depressing as hell, but I guess rather true. You know you're smart, you said you're smart. You don't need alevels to prove that to you. You have an intelligent head on your shoulders. You may have fallen off track a few times but you haven't lost course yet. I get depressed sometimes. I don't want to share why, but I feel some of the similar feelings you described. It hurts to eat, sleep, think, communicate. I don't take any prescription drugs, to take away pain I search for the small, unappreciated joys in life. Everyone in society hurries around from point A to B, or spends their time listening to rumors at school, or thinking about work or school. Our minds are so far astray from nature and the real planet Earth, and getting closer can make you a lot happier. I once read a story about a man who had both his legs amputated below the knees, he had to walk with fake legs. He said it was strange not to feel the ground underneath his feet when he walked - so I always appreciate the feeling of the ground underneath my feet, or texture on my hands. Look out the window, think about the trees that have roots digging deep into the earth, have nests that are homes to birds, or scars and snapped branches from people. Those trees have seen the world change. They filter the air and make it clean and fresh to breathe. Trees are incredible. When I see the sun, or the reflection of the sun on roofs of cars or windows, it feels me with such intense feelings. When the sun is so bright all you can see is white... These are the highlights of mother nature, they happen all the time - and people never take a moment to appreciate them. Try to spend time outdoors, even just laying in the grass. Look for small things that people take for granted. Think yourself "I wonder if I am the only person in the world appreciating life right now." If you are the only person in the entire world appreciating life, you should feel incredibly powerful. Hopefully there are other people appreciating our world, and you instantly share a connection with all of them. Appreciating is an intense form of happiness. Give it a try. Send me a message from my profile anytime you want to talk or rant. I hope you have a good day, sir.

Benji

You sure sound depressed to me. You could try getting support from the forums at http://depression.about.com/ Wishhing you all the best. Anyone would be depressed after what you've been through.

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