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Feeling a bit lonely and unwanted?

I have been feeling a bit depressed lately, care to help?

  • I know this is the time of year when all kids are feeling a bit down because the summer is wrapping up and its time to get back to school. I have been feeling very depressed because of some other things lately too. In a matter of one week my girlfriend broke up with me, and my best friend since 4th grade has moved away. I don't think I have ever cried since I was like 5, but I cried when I heard of both of these things. My girlfriend broke up with me because I didn't like to hang out with her friends, they were all drinking every time I would see them and they always made complete idiots out of themselves. They were like really stupid blondes, she couldnt stand that I hated her friends so she broke up with me, I dont know why she would do that, I really loved her, not just for her looks, but I could say anything to her and she would not judge me, only help me. Now I dont have someone who I can just talk to about my problems, I dont have someone who will just cuddle with me when I am feeling down. Before I was with my girlfriend I had my bestfriend, Brian. Brian and I would always do everything together since 5th grade. We were voted best friends in every year book. He was the one that would I would act like myself and he wouldnt care. I have other friends, but I would always act a little bit fake around them because I was afraid of being judged. Its really hard to explain what I am going through right now, any ideas of how to get over the pain would be greatly appreciated. I am on a prescription for my depression but it doesent seem to be working very well.

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    Do counseling as you can afford it. Try to stop worrying about what others say think or do. Realize that you are a special miracle and on the other side of this life will be better. Who is anyone to judge you. Live life to its fullest and do what YOU want and not what others try to get you to do. I care, and you are a miracle, so start acting like one..lol Me.

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Its time to man up.Welcome to the real world.There will come a time when you have to take things like a man and go out into the world on your own.Im n that situation right now and i have to deal with it,so do you. Keep your chin up

Paul

If you are really depressed you should try talking to a school counselor or a therapist if you have the insurance/money for it. Breaking-up with a significant other is always hard, but in the long run don't you want a partner with friends you enjoy hanging out with? It will make life better in the long run, and one day you'll probably think of the break-up as a good thing. Best friends moving away is also hard, but that doesn't mean the relationship is over. You can still call or email him to get advice on how you're feeling - don't let the friendship die. In the meantime, try hanging out with some of your other friends more. Get involved with hobbies, sports, or a job to keep you busy and help you find new friends. You'll get through this.

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