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I Have Body Image Problems?

  • I'm 14 years old, 5"8 and I weigh 180-something pounds. I calculated my BMI and national standards say I'm borderline obese. I've been on a diet for about a month now and I'm steadily losing weight, 6 pounds gone already. While I'm getting my weight under control, I still have self-image problems. When I look at my reflection, I just stare and think "my God, how can I be this ugly?" I try to avoid going outside entirely, because I don't want to disgust anybody with my appearance and I can tell they're thinking about how ugly I am. There's this boy that I like, we've known each other since sixth grade. He said I was beautiful, and I laughed because I know he's lying. In my head, I just kept saying "liar, liar, liar, liar, liar" and I just wanted to cry and I felt so repulsive. I always think to myself how stupid it would be for me to lose all the weight, go out in public all dressed up and maybe happy, only to find out I'm ugly enough for my face to cancel out my body. My personality sucks, so I don't even bother lying to myself about that. Besides, no one cares about personality today, it's all about looks. Don't even try to bullshit me on that, because I know our society revolves around gorgeously fake idolized men and women like Kim Kardashian and the whole goddamned cast of Jersey Shore. Why do I even try anymore? It's like putting money into a broken slot machine. I need motivation, music, movies, stories, anything. I just want to know it's worth it.

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    welcome to being a woman. keep working at it. its all you can do.

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I have self image problems too. Sometimes, I look in the mirror and I just feel downright ugly. I've even cried over it before. But then I pick myself back up and just walk back into life with my head held high. Yeah, I'm not gonna lie, people care more about looks than they do personality these days, but I really don't give a damn what anybody else thinks about my body because I love me for ME and that's all that matters. I hope you can learn to love yourself too, girl <3 EDIT: No, this isn't going to be your life from now on. This is what we call "adolescence", the transition to adulthood. Life at this age is awkward and confusing, but trust me, no matter how perfect someone may look on the outside, they're probably going through the same thing as you. This is normal, but it won't last forever. This happens to everyone. After this stage you won't feel as confused and bad about yourself. Just remember: the stupidest thing you could ever do is kill yourself. Suicide is for the weaklings, and you don't sound the least bit weak to me.

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