My parents are always saying I'm lazy and have no motivation, but really I just feel depressed all the time?
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I'm 15. I'm 1/2 way through my GCSE's, and I'm in top placement for intelligence for all my subjects. I can't cope with the work and revision anymore, it never stops. I'm doing Art GCSE also, the coursework for this immense and constant, it's the hardest GCSE I believe by far. I have time limits for work all the time and keep leaving things 'till the last minute, then never doing the work at all. All my teachers expect me to be getting A and A*s, but my grades are still around a B. I've started trying to get off school so I don't have to make excuses for no homework. My room and organisation is in a mess. I feel completely messed up and feel that no-one cares. Nobody would ever believe how I'm feeling, because I always try to act happy to others so they will not bother me. They wouldn't believe me if I told them I felt dead and unhappy inside. My parents don't understand me anymore. I never do my work or tidy my room or do anything anymore, all I want to do is sleep and eat loads and loads and I can't stop, I've put on weight. I get weird moments where I want to just cry. My mum and dad think I am being a typical lazy teenager and I don't know how to explain to them how I feel. I've had problems before where I've thought I've had OCD or diabetes or an illness and then nothing's been wrong, so again they'd think I was lying. They call it my 'hypercondriac moment'. I don't feel right inside my head at all, I never have for the past year or so. I want to go to my GP, not my school nurse. Last time I went she wasn't nice at all. I love it in the summer when I can just relax and do work outside and feel happy, but in winter I'm stuck inside with no motivation or reason to do anything. I wish I was dead or that I could go into a coma and leave for a few months. What do I do?! I HAVE NO LIFE ANYMORE. I HAVE SO MUCH WORK DUE IN ON MONDAY AND I HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING.
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Answer:
I know what you're going through.. I went through something pretty similar, (I gave my IGCSEs) I think you should find something that you like doing and as long as you're focused on one thing, you'll stay motivated. I started playing piano, and suddenly its like I have something to look forward to that's constructive at the same time. :) or maybe try playing a sport.. tennis is fun. And chill.. your life will feel like hell for sometime, but it won't last.
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Sounds like depression :/ I have depression too so I know how shitty u are feeling
James
Hm, have you thought about making an appointment with your GP and explaining how you're feeling to them? Maybe there is something they can give you..or maybe you have depression which I'm not sure they can do anything about. but good luck x
Aimee
Take a breather for a second here. You're doing an immense amount of work and you keep going with it. Tell your parents exactly what your telling us. Screw if they don't understand. Tell them the disconnection you feel with them and how the pressure of all this accumulated work has affected you mentally and emotionally. Take a stand because in my opinion a 15 yr old should not feel asthough they are 30. You should do the amount of work you can handle even if that means not being in the hardest classes. Keep calm from here on out and let your parents know whats going on.
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