Are all people with Aspergers the same?

I feel that people take advantage of me becuase I have aspergers(autism).?

• For many many years especially after I graduated from high school in june 1999 I feel that people started taking advantage of me for free rides,free vacations and free restuarant meals, free movies. Actually I wasn't really bad in 1999. It started happening over the past five or 6 years around 2005. Even though I graudated college with a Bachelors in 2004 I still don't have a job. I walk wobbly,wear glasses, talk in a mumbled voice, have blank stares. Doctors have daignosed me with having very mild cerebral puls and aspergers. I have been fired and descriminated in may paid jobs. Unfortunalty I don't have many if any friends. The 5 people who I thought were my friend took advantage of me and felt that they could freeload off me. It really put me down. Over the past 5 years I have gone on road trips in my car with these people and they don't pay for anything. Same thing when I go out to dinner or to the movies. Some of these people actually have jobs and money. Currently I let all these people go and Iam with my parents or alone. Is this common for people with aspergers. At age 30 I live at home with my parents. I'm a guy. Rents in my area are $1,000 a month or more to rent a room. I have never dated a girl becuase they are embarrased to be with someone like me. The most I have had is being an acquantance with a girl who just used me for free rides and dinners out. When I dropped her off and had to use the restroom she wouldn't let me in her apartment to go to the restroom afterI had taken her out to dinner and paid for a movie. This is after I had known the girl for 5 years. She let other guys hang out in her apartment. There is this person who is another guy who I thought was my friend but then I realized he was just using me for what I have. Once my car broke down and I needed hime to drive me somewhere. He was working 4 blocks away. He lied and said he couldn't and this was after I let him ride in my car to go to las vegas for free. I had also taken him out to dinner twice a week for 6 months and ended up paying for his meal. Does society want people with asp[ergers to not exist? What should I do? I'm worried that at age 40 in 10 years I'm still going to be living at home with my parents and have never had a girlfriend or any friends who care about me.

• Answer:

  Depression an abuse go hand-in-hand with asperger's, and suicide goes hand-in-hand with depression. Depression is caused from Aspies feeling "different". I don't know if I am wrong though, that was the case for me anyways.There are a lot of people who aren't understanding of other people's disabilities. Always take care