Help me should I just kill myself?
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Ok so I'm 14 almost 15 long story short I'm in 8 grade didnt go to school at all last year so im supposed to be in freshman but since I didnt go to school I have to repeat eight grade and i know it was a stupid mistake the problem is that I don't remember anything from 7 grade and I can't go back this year I'm really scared to lose another year but I'm more scared to go back, next year is approaching really fast and I know that I'm not going back so maybe I should just drop out all together; homeschooling isn't really an option where I live so I don't know what to do I cry every night because my "friends" make fun of me and call me stupid so I don't have anyone to talk to; my family isn't really helping they tell me that I'm dumb and that I'll never be good enough like my sister (she's in college studying medicine and it's number 1 in her class) I think I have some sort of learning disability cause I just can't do simple multiplications now I used to be a really good student back in elementary. Everyone knows that you will not make it far in life without education and no one will like you and you'll never get married; I don't know what to do maybe I should just kill myself and everyone will be happier especially me.
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don't kill yourself, talk to a teacher about getting tutoring ?
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No, don't kill yourself. By doing that you're just letting them win. Be stronger. Make something of yourself and have a good life. It's too precious to throw away. Remember that. Also, just think about where these kids are gonna be in the future. Aim to do better than them. I doubt they'll get anywhere in life. They'll probably always be jerks and you can't change that, but what you can change is what you're doing with your life. Prepare yourself for a great future in doing what you love. We're all good at and destined for something... You just need to find out what it is. If school is that bad of an environment for you though, I definitely think you should consider tutoring, whether it be home-schooling or online courses. Good luck and stay safe, my friend. :)
Killing yourself is not the answer. There are going to be many times in your life in which you'll have to make very important decisions that may have a positive and or negative outcome. Part of life is learning which path we should take in various situations. Being held back doesn't mean that you're a failure, or that you can't improve your current situation. Don't give up!! Home schooling through Penn Foster is an option. It doesn't matter where you live. If you want more information about it i'll be more then happy to help you. My youngest son who is in 9th grade is home schooled through them. My oldest son got behind about a year and a half when we moved to another city. He just didn't adjust well & missed all of his childhood friends. He is now going to an alternative school that enables him to work at his own pace & to get caught up on credits. He also has the option to take college courses. There are alternative school available for all kids who need it, and in every city or town. You might need to talk to your parents about it so they can look into for you. It's not the end of the world if you get behind. So what, if it takes you an extra year to get caught up. I failed 7th grade because my parents moved me around so much. I too, went to an alternative school to get caught up & returned to high school to continue my education with my peers the following year. If your friends are making fun of you then i wouldn't say they are that great of friends. A true & sincere friend would be there to support you through it & to come up with some ideas to possibly help you. If you need answers to anymore questions your welcome to message me. It might also be a good idea to talk to a school counselor because they are going to be the ones who can help you the most, aside from your parents. Sweetie, you will get through this & have a sense of pride when you do. It will show you that you can overcome other things as well, even when it seems hopeless. Giving up will make you feel even more hopeless. Hang in there! There are answers to every problem & you can get through this. I wish you the best!! Take care & good luck.
Please dont kill yourself. I was just like you, BAD at multiplication and everything, didnt go to school all of that. As I got older tho (I'm 22 now) and matured I started realizing education WAS actually important to me to do well in life, because face it, families not gonna have my back and neither are my fair weather friends... Just know i'm in college now, and im taking a class for basic math that really helps, so dont worry about not knowing anything during high school because during college you can take classes to re-learn stuff that you dont know now. I know its hard, believe me I been there before, but dont end your life when youre so young. I know you hear that all of the time but you will only really understand when you are older. But you will be thankful. Just think of how much life ahead of you that you have, dont end it over this! You are 15, just think how many times 15 goes into 90... You still have SOOO much life left to live, sooo much chances and room for improvement. Think about it, in 3 or 4 years you can ditch all your family and fake friends, surround yourself with REAL friends who actually DO care about you and how you feel, and who knows you will meet someone, get married, have a baby, you will think back and be so glad you didnt end it. You will understand life gets really hard sometimes, but you cant just give up. Everybody is fighting their own battles. If you could lay all your problems out on a table along with a bunch of other peoples problems, and choose new ones, you would snatch yours back in a heartbeat. Good luck and dont give up!!! Your life is too precious to end especially so young, and even if they dont act like it, your parents and family love you and its not fair to do that to them.
Suicide is the answer when there is no possible solution. So, no, you're really not at that point yet. I would suggest just keep trying, if you can stand it. You haven't even reached college yet. Teenage suicide is really no good; the minimum age for suicide is about 23, otherwise you're bailing too early. You're in such a meaningless phase of your life right now, it's just not worth it. Avoid homeschooling if you can help it. It's awful. And **** your friends, get rid of them. Your parents are clearly douchebags, and just about anyone who would be in any position to help you. Go your own way and ignore them. I don't see why you still can't finish school, you're clearly not stupid. You're getting lots of **** and handling a lot of problems, but they're all pretty temporary, and won't last forever. Oh, and I know a girl who dropped out of high school, and yet the guys are fawning over her. Education doesn't really mean much in a guy's opinion of a girl. It's almost a non-issue for almost all guys. All they care about is if you look and smell nice and keep their hormones surging, which education doesn't have much to do with. It's easier than it sounds. Even if you think you're ugly, you'd be amazed the types some guys prefer. Also, for the hell of it, I'll mention that suicide is extremely difficult to pull off, and there's nothing worse than failing it, and possibly ending up with brain damage as a result. Practically all suicide attempts fail because no one knows what they're doing, and they end up seriously hurting themselves, or paralyzing themselves, or something like that. It's tragic; it makes you wish they had succeeded. So, no, it's too early for suicide. If you're still miserable in ten years, sure, then it can be more seriously considered. Right now, though, you're killing yourself before you're even giving yourself a chance to get off the ground. There's too much risk in attempting suicide to be worth it at this point.
Traditional education isn't for everyone. Hang in there, talk to some teachers to get tutoring. Try to see if you can find someone to talk to about your suicidal thoughts, as well. There are hotlines and help groups -- search online or see if there is something available in your community. It takes all kinds of people to make the world go 'round ... so don't listen to the jerks calling you names. Are you caring? The world needs people whose best trait is being kind and considerate to others, such as CNAs or other health care related careers. Are you a good cook? Someone who can cook does quite a service to others. Are you good with animals? Consider being a vet tech or something similar. Etc. The world doesn't just need rocket scientists or engineers or surgeons. It needs all sorts of people. The world seems so cut and dry at your age, but you get older and realize that nearly everyone has some kind of struggle and there are opportunities to make the best of what you can do.
if they call you stupid then those imbecile arent your friends.dont kill yourself you have a future ahead of you
mmhmm that's right, stay safe
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