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I am stalking this guy and I dont know whats the next step for me?

  • i only posted this again because i added some more info . pleas ehelp me. okay so i feel so connected to this guy. i have never spoken with him. i just see him around and i know he sees me too. i feel like i love him. i have been stalking him soemwhat and i know probably a lot more about him than he knows about me. from the way i see him, the perception i get of who he is from what i found out about him through stalking him, i am just in love with him. i also love how he looks. now of course since we have never exchanged words, i am not 100% certain what i think i know about his personality is reality. anyway i know his astrology sign and i have been studying it in books i have and on the internet and comparing it to my sign and we seem to be very much compatible. we are often listed as matches in astrology. i have been studying him through stalking him for MONTHS. i have never gotten the courage to go up to him so far because ... well, i really dont know why. i mean i just cant come up with a reason for me not going up to him.. theres just like some sort of repulsive-magnet that has me avoiding going up to him and then something that makes me try to get him to notice me. i dont get it, maybe you can help me if youre into psychology or whatever. so anyway, can you tell me whats up with me? if you need more details just let me know i will be glad to tell you whatever you need to know.. i just want to know what is up with me. and him. yes i know i am a stalker i dont know what love is cause i never experienced it i think its love because i touch myself when i think of him when i am at home in my room and a lot of thoughts remind me of him i touch myself in the way that it makes me think that he is actually touching me I JUST CANT GO UP TO HIM!!! ive tried... 3 times so far and i just cant. i end up just walking right by him and pretending to ignore his presense instead of actually talking to him. HELP PLEASE! im becoming depressed.

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    your crazy, sorry, my ex stalked me and it made me insane, so STOP IT!! its not nice being stalked, his gonna notice soon and its going to freak him out and you might end up in jail. seriously your INSANE get some help man..

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Okay. Sounds like you need a bit of counseling... But what you do is none of my business, but if you would like to talk to him, suck it up and do something to make him talk to you. Accidentally run into him or something! Just talk to him! Its not hard! But if you do talk to him, and he doesnt seem to like you, let it go. You can get a restraining order put on you if you do this so often! How old are you anyways??

Either talk to him or forget him altogether. Those are your choices. If you don't do one you have to do the other. You don't think he's noticed you hanging around all the time? Honestly, he's probably scared of you. So leave him alone and stop this unhealthy obsession. You're bordering on insane...

uhm...he's never gonna love you back because you are a freak. Get over him. Find real love, or just go out to a party and get laid...but use condoms. You don't wanna be in the sequel to Knocked up.

you can't go up to him because you are scared. but if you ever want to get anywhere with him either it be a friendship, relationship, or just an acquaintance you need to find some way to talk to him.

What you are doing is illegal and what you are thinking is even worse, seek help immediately

You should definitely talk to a counselor or psychologist. i think you are afraid to approach him because deep down you know your feelings for him are-over the top- and that will probably freak him out and you will feel rejected. does this person remind you of someone? perhaps that's why you feel so connected. You might be transferring your feelings from that other person onto him.

Kill him. Just kidding. Just clear your mind of all thoughts and sense and inhibitions and go talk to him. The longer you put it off and analyze the situation the more nervous you'll get and then you'll loose the impulse to go talk to him.

Usually murder is the next step - either that or a successful career in surrealist art. If this isn't a piss take however, have a beer or two to get up the courage and then just go up to him ...otherwise you will be doomed to eternal misery.

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