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Why Are Some People So Controlling In Relationships?

Are Scorpios the most controlling and why?

  • Scorpos have compulsive controlling issues. They could try to not control things just to do it more. They care about people so deeply that they do everything they can to just keep those people from gtting hurt. Scorpios never know if others truely like them. They can read motives, while feelings are very difficult to distinguish from one another. Their only concern is keeping themselves security wise very comfortable and then everything else comes along. Since their instinct for balance isn't quite as much, wanting something so much and then trying to hold on to it along the way and seeing it change is hard to do over and over. Scorpios really care about people. As one myself I still feel that i don't have a great self concept. I remember feeling really tired and sad a lot growing up and often not knowing why. I dunno what type of person I really am. I want people to like me, it just seems to not happen very easily. I feel that I am working really hard in my relationships. Sometimes I just give up because I feel there is nothing more I can do , my intellect stops here so I have to stop trying if not just for myself. If theres somthing I can do to bring myself a feel of calm balance then I do, because I know what I do is right. I know Scorpios are called sexy, its just not that kind of sexy. Its a really earthy, stormy kind of passion. Feelings that rage inside and then come out later in different ways. feeling so good sometimes and not having the words for it all, just a soft hi pitch sigh and smile. This is when I am most content. How about you?

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    We don't want to control EVERYTHING, just some things. I think we are the ones who sometimes unintentionally end up hurting the ones we care about because we care a bit too much. That's probably the reason for all the hatred we get. Its sometimes misunderstood. And we can very well distinguish feelings, which means we can also tell when some one like us or not. But I agree with whatever you said about the instinct for balance. I'm exactly the way you've described. Not sure about the kind of person I am, and when I tell my friends about how I feel, they tell me what they think I am and that I'm a good person and don't need to worry and stuff I just feel like asking them to shut the **** up. Their intention are good, taken, but you know, those are not the answers I feel like I'm always looking for. And people misunderstand when they say Scorpios are sexy. Its not visibly obvious, its just the aura that we have. Like raw and earthy. Like when Taurus get aggressive and angry, we get aggressive and sexy.

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can u plz control how much u write or i will. im a scorpio.

HuuPoo

One of my best friends was a scorpio and he was the nicest guy i have ever met.He lives for others;he gives, gives and gives without expecting anything in return.Scorpio people seem to be very possessive but loyal;they want to know everything about you and it sometimes is annoying.They are very expressive.They get hurt easily and they are not materialistic at all, they value relationships.They do everything with a passion.

curiosity

I don't think it would be proper to categorize all scorpios as controlling. Some might just be the opposite.

Pedro E

yes some r some arent. well scorpios tend to be controlling though.

I'm a Scorpio and don't consider myself a controlling person. I don't like to be controlled. I have a friend who is a Cancer who is so controlling..She wants everyone to do what she wants or she throws a fit and if you don't agree with her views, forget about it.. She'll erupt like Mt. St. Helen's and tell you how horrible you are for not agreeing with her. I'm am nothing like that. I consider myself a very shy, nice person. Most Scorpio's I know are very caring and passionate about people around them. We are very loyal and put a lot of value in our relationships.I like giving people their space just like I want my space. I do get jealous sometimes..but I think most people do at one point or another..Anyway...just my two cents worth..

Jovi

I don't think Scorpios should be generalized as controlling. My natal chart is water/air pre-dominated, I have the logic as well as the emotion in the mix. I think the answer to your question lies in the depth of who that scorpio is, why they are because of where they are, why they are because of when they are. etc.

All My Intensity

We can be jealous, but im not controlling at all. I dont care what ppl do, as long as they arent in my way.

USAFMickey

Controlling but I know other signs that are worse but i guess you can put them in the same category. For ex: my sister wanted to pick up food at a certain time. I went 5 minutes over the "scheduled" time and she threw a fit and became a b*tch. I told her, "hey, the food's not leaving. i worked there, i know how busy there are. We can be there 5 minutes later." She was upset i called her out being upset and tried to weasel her way into becoming "dominant" and "right" about it... whatever, she's full of attitude

iBelieve in TrueLove

They care about people so deeply that they do everything they can to just keep those people from getting hurt >>>>I don't know is it read as controlling when i think it's as protective. lol. Coz i do that. Their only concern is keeping themselves security wise very comfortable and then everything else comes along. Since their instinct for balance isn't quite as much, wanting something so much and then trying to hold on to it along the way and seeing it change is hard to do over and over. >>>> lol. big YES. Change for scorpio is evolving. We need to sting our self n die. And it caused a lot of pain.lol. I remember feeling really tired and sad a lot growing up and often not knowing why >> I had that,lol. But I hide it well to my cheer-up rising sign: sagi,n creating big smile although after that I'll isolate my self n crying for no reason.lol. (Sagittarians tend to be optimistic, able to inspire others, and able to deal with obstacles and setbacks with good humor and hope. They want everybody to be happy, and they tend to have a lucky knack for bringing about situations and outcomes that work out well for everyone) Being in 12th house, (my scorpio sun in 12th house) I keep my emotions and needs well hidden, n sometime I don't even understand them well - my emotions act on my unconsciousness level. Having sagi rising makes others see me as cheerful, energetic, and optimistic, even if I don't always feel that way on the inside.lol. With these conflict combination, having scorpio sun in 12th house and sagittarius rising, I don't think my self as controlling person at all.

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