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I want my ex back any advice.

I need some advice!!! how do i get my ex boyfriend to want me back? 2 tiny questions easy 10 points!?

  • im not really talking about jealousy im talking more about him regretting letting me go and him missing me. i miss him soo soo much its not healthy i zone out in class completely day dreaming of him and having flash backs of our times together. we broke up about a month ago and i realized i was in love with him about 3 weeks ago. and im still deeply in love with him. we're both sophmores and we always see each other during the day but we stopped talking after the break up. he sent me a break up text on a saturday and i told him to grow up because everything he was accusing me of doing wrong he was doing wrong to me (does that make sense?).. and his excuse of why he wont talk to me is that i hurt him by telling him that he should grow up(i found this out by one of the friends we have in common)...and the thing is we have alot of the same friends and now we're completely isolated from each other its really bad because at times i forget that we're not talking and i want to walk up to him and hug him and kiss him.. then i remember. im going through sooo much right now i just want him back so bad!! he was the only person that made me happy and he knew exactly what to say to me when i felt like this.. and since we broke up things have just been going down hill.. so here are my questions 1)what should i do to make him miss me and want me back (not including hooking up with his friends im not like that) and 2)was it wrong of me to tell him to grow up? please help and thanks!

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    hes so obviously over you he probably already has a nicer girlfried than you ull ever be. you told him to grow up now no wonder you cant find anyone else if you tell them to grow up UUUUUUUUUUUUHHHHHHHHHHHH YOU SHOULD GROW UP MISSY

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Ok, im not being mean or anything but kinda the same thing happened to me. My girlfriend broke up with me and she also said that i needed to grow up. Guys really, really hate being told to grow up. Its just one of those male things that you don't people, especially girls, pointing out your fatal flaws. The easiest way (probably) to get your man back is to just apologize. Tell him how terribly you miss him and how nothing is going right. He may not realize it now but he probably still likes you. And all those things that you said he falsely accused you of, he was probably just making them up to hide the fact that he still really likes you. (don't tell him that) But i really hope everything works out. And im sorry if i wasn't really helpful enough... i'm only in Middle School. Good luck!

I don't think it was wrong of you to tell him to grow up but I think you might want to follow the same advice...

wtf why do you want him back

this is tricky

1) you DONT. you go up to him and ask to speak in private. be brave, you can only TALK this out. dont play silly games 2) no, he broke up with you by means of a text. that is terrible.

sound's like you both need to grow up......and dumping someone by text is not cool. I would not do anything....just behave normally, because acting like there's a big black cloud overhead is not exactly sexy is it... just be normal, and just make gentle approaches, and be friends first...... acting slowly will help to give confidence, you just never know......if you act like a screw up your most likely to scare him away if it is meant to be....it will be...

1. Send him a hand written love letter and flirt with him again. Be really forward, what have you to lose. Men don't pick up on subtle hints and don't react with jealousy like women do. Men are more likely to focus on their friends and sport than dwell on love lost, especially when young. Be proactive to win him back. 2. Don't tell him to grow up. Not growing up is one of the good things about men and something we hate to hear. If a woman told me to grow up I would just switch off. Men never grow up anyway. good luck, when you hook up with him again he should also realize how much better he feels with you than away from you.

it wasn't wrong of you to tell him to grow up; but i think you could make a start by apologizing about the whole "you should grow up" thing to him first. then the next week or the week after, you should try just talking to him sorta or something. Or; after you apologize about the whole "you should grow up thing" you could just pretend like he means nothing to you and smile around him all the time and if he is talking to one of your friends just go right up to both of them and join in the conversation! he most likely misses you too, so dont think for a second he doesn't, he's just better at hiding it cause he's a man and thats how men are. they are stupid; yes we know, but thats why we love them(:

thanx

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