Please help me how should I win my girlfriend back! Girls answers preferred... guys okay too! points?

Hello Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically. Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back: Don't Ask Her To Get Back Together You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO! You're only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better. But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction. So don't ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way. You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her. Don't Be Jealous You must understand that ...SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do. If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision. Be Flexible Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think. These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. good luck

I would just give it time my friend. You have already broken up. I know it hurts, but there is no use in getting impatient and angry with her now. The more impatient and angry you get, the more you'll push her away. When you do contact her, try to be the easy going guy you know you can be and make like you're not affected too much by it. Go out and have fun too. I also found a site that had a lot of information on getting your ex back through an e-course. http://www.thedatingguy.net/getyourexback.html Check it out if you want and good luck!

I'll keep it short and sweet mate. The only way you can make things better here is by giving her space, and by looking after yourself. By trying to control her, you've made her crave space. You're going to have to change if you want her back, and things won't be the same afterwards. Keep yourself busy, and let her miss you. If she doesn't get back in touch, you'll know not to waste any more effort.