How To Save Your Relationship?

I've helped so many out with their questions, can I get help now? How can I save my relationship(It's short)?

• K I lied...it's not that short haha. But you read way more than this in school so you can just read this paragraph and help me out. My boyfriend's mom is very controlling. He's 16 and she still monitors his every move as though he were 5. She even tries to control his relationship with me :/ I could understand if we were doing bad things or something, but we've been dating for almost a year and a half and have not done anything past kissing and neither of us want to. We had somewhat of a fight on the phone, but it wasn't horrible. However, his mom decided to listen in on the last part. She then decided that since we had a disagreement she has to listen to all our phone calls and read all the messages we send to each other. Now that's just too awkward for both of us. We don't talk hardly at all during the week online or by phone because of his mom listening in. And no, we don't say things that we know his mom wouldn't like to hear. Think about it, wouldn't you feel uncomfortable if you were talking to your bf/gf and the parent was listening in? Anyway, we only see each other and talk twice a week now. He's always treated me very well, my parents love him because he's so good to me, and he still treats me very well. I really love him, I know we're young but love doesn't have an age limit, and I don't mean I'm in love with him because I think to be truly in love you may have to be older. I can tell he really misses me and I miss him a lot too. His mom won't let him do anything...i.e. get into sports or other things where he'd meet people to hang out with. I'm the only person in his life that he's close to because of his mom. I can't do anything about though. What can I do to save the relationship? Thanks.

• Answer:

  He has to stop being a pussy and stand up to her. You, yourself, can't do anything cuz it'll just make you seem "demanding" and like a jerk. Since you guys are young you have to do what she says. Try going out together, with her- so she can be around you more and see that you're not such a bad kid and you guys can be trusted. Watch movies at his house with his whole family. Have your parents assure her that if he comes over there will be continuous adult supervision. You kind of have to play by her rules to see her child. Good luck I know it seriously sucks but stick it out.