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  • okay well i met this guy last summer when i went down to visit my family, he happens to be best friends with my cousin. So he was hanging out with us since my cousin was seriously outnumbered by girls. He chilled with us and it was fun. i got his number so we texted and talked online a lot throughout the summer when i left. he was talking with my sister too. but at one point i knew he was talking to me more. and then in December he went away for vacation so i didn't get to talk to him, and that is when i realized how much i liked him, i felt weird not talking to him, and my whole entire mood changed, it was that noticeable. we he got back we talked way less but he got busy with school and stuff. in February i went down to visit a college down there, and my cousin and him showed us around. i completely screwed things up because i made things awkward and i was really really shy because i liked him so much. he even noticed and said "wow your really quiet why aren't you talking." i couldn't help it i was just in awe. When i got back we talked but not that much again cause i didn't want to bother him because he was really busy with school. THEN IT ALL F*ing HAPPENED..JUNEE so he had texted me one day after a really long time. and i told my friend about it. and so she texted me at the same time i was texting him and i guess i was really excited and whatever that i accidentally sent the text to him that was meant for my friend. i was a complete mess and was freaking out because he found out that i liked him. he said "do you want to explain that. i don't like you like that i like you as a friend, u not mad are u?" and i tried to play it off but he knew i was lying (i always knew he didn't like me like that but deep down i thought maybe he did because we talked so much and he constantly would make fun of me and stuff). then i just asked him not to say anything to my cousin. he said "don't stress, we are cool, you still annoy me and everything". and i was okay with it. or at least i thought. i was still so embarrassed and stuff that i couldn't sleep for a couple of days. so i texted him cause i wanted to get things off my chest. we talked and he asked when i started liking him and stuff and i answered honestly. and he said "aight well i don't think your a freak". but then we got on the topic of my cousin because stupid me mentioned it again. and he was joking saying he's gonna tell him and i was like no seriously don't i don't want him to get mad. and he's like why would he get mad. and they he said "hey i think its better if we don't talk i don't want him to be mad at me, we are best friends, and i would do the same for him" i got really upset and told him that it he's not mad, and he said u wouldn't have said that if u didn't know he was mad. (i tried convincing him that he didn't say anything to me cause he didn't , but he didn't believe me, and i understand they have been friends way longer than us, but i mean we bonded sorta over the last 7 months). then randomly i had been talking to my cousin so i subtely asked him if he cared if i talked to him. and he said "lol no i don't care" so i texted him later on in the day and told him that and he said "why are you doing all this" and i told him that i was upset and wanted to fix things and he said "what did you say to him" and i told him i didn't say anything bad i subtlety asked him. and he said "now i'm mad why did you have to say anything, just leave it alone" and i told him if anyone has the right to be mad its me and that i cried over this ****. and he said "why are you crying over this, i don't know why u thought i liked you i still like my ex and we might get back together" and i got really mad because he knew i was hiding it because i knew he didn't like me and i told him "that was a f*ing low blow and that i know he doesn't like me".....so later on i texted him to apologize for pissing him off and meddling with things. he said "just stop worrying about it" then about two weeks later he texted me at 1 in the morning and said "u not upset no more right" so i texted him the next day and said "no i guess not" even though i was because i didn't want to make a bigger deal. and i asked him if he was still pissed at me and he said no. and that was the extent of our conversation. i was over it until like the beginning of july. and then i saw his s.n online and saw that one day he texted my sister. and i just got really upset. i obviously like him still and more than i thought i did. and i just want to be friends again. but i don't know if i should text him at the end of summer? because i know for a fact he won't text me ever again. what do i dooo? i'm heart broken and i know i'm the one that messed things up, its all my fault if i just kept my mouth shut and dealt with the embarrassment instead of talking to him, he wouldn't have said its bettter if we don't talk. and none of the other stuff would have happened. its all my fault.

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    wow dnt txt him bak at all it will mess u up in the head worst than u already are. u need to stop thinking bout dis guy and forget bout him and if he ever talks to u or sum1 brings him up jus think as it of his loss and act like he was nothing and u will get over it eventlly. make urself feel like ur the best and its his loss and if he txt or any thing leave him hanging. on his side he prolly sees u as sum dum hoe who wants his nuts and keeps on pulling u in and if u show him ur not intrested he den will realize he fuked up and might den like or he will move on and both will go on ur way. and ur a hoe

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all i can say is, HOLY **** you can write a novel. okay back to your problem...you didn't totally do anything wrong, and this is going to be EXTREMELY hard to do but honestly you have to get over him. that sounds easy but its reallyyyyyy not easy at all. i dont have any easy tips on how to do that exactly but you are going to have to try. the dude doesn't like you like that, and at least you understand that. he wants to date other people, and you might as well do the same. find an old crush and like him again or something, find someone new. you can still talk to the dude, texting him cant hurt anything. just lightly get back into the swing again, text him casually and dont stress over it. just start off with "hey hows your summer going?" and maybe add in, "really i hope there are no hard feelings." just possibly wait awhile if you start talking to him again, the love you've tried so hard to push away just may be make its way back in. i wish you the best of luck and hope everything works out for the best. i promise you everything will get better.

Just let it go. You're obviously young and this is just a crush so just look forward to your next crush. Don't feel bad.

i know you like him a lot, but i think it is time to let go. As hard as that sounds you have to. He obviously is being a jerk and you don't need anyone like that...at all. if he texts you one day out of the blue,,,you have to just ignore the message; you have to delete it. show him that you are the better person. your worth it remember.

you are really clingy, he said just friends and you obviously kept trying to make it a deeper relationship despite your attempts. Find another guy.

I think you should move on. you can still be friends but I wouldn't count on him having a change of heart.

wow, i wouldn't say this was all your fault. he didn't let you down too easy, and kinda acted very rude towards you afterward. to me, it sounds like he kind of likes you, but doesn't want to. i'm not sure why, it's just the vibe I'm getting. i'm very sorry this happened to you and wish you the best of luck. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgsIGykYzQ9sxPN2iarACqHsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090804201641AAd5lxq

Ok well the reason you like him more then before now is because basically when you want something you cant have you WANT IT MORE! I think you should just talk to other people and im sure you can find some1 else because in this case its mostly cuz u know u cant have him so your upset its ok because thier are guys out there who are WAY better then him and you are wasting time thinking about this clown while you can be out there finding a better one...KAPISHH

Ok, ive been through a similar thing to what you have so i understand what your saying, honestly i think you should ignore him completley thats what i did, and he came running back to me. he said the same thing as what he said to you, he said he liked his ex still and he didnt like me. i was devastated and i deleted his msn and phone number then a few months later he got my number of my friend and said he screwed up (even though i did) and we were together for 8 months but we didnt work out and now were just friends. basically ignore him and wait, during that time you may meet someone else, you never know. goodluck, hope this helps x

time will heal your heart. it always does. trust me. in the meantime, try not to think about him. he's told you more than once that he only likes you as a friend. it's harsh but it's the truth. and the fact that this is all done through text messaging is lame. dont you want to have a boyfriend who calls you to talk about issues? like i said, it would probably be best if you didn't think about him. things can only get worse from here. make him realize that you are the bigger person. you dont want him thinking that you still like him after he shot you down. he's not worth it. if it's too hard not to think about him, then try talking to another guy. this will get your mind off of him. hope this helps.

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