Why is it always so much emphasis on understanding women?

i think its because men normally make it very clear how they are feeling and your very consistent women on the other hand...we're not that at all lls we run on emotions we're not consistent and etc...thats y there's so much emphasis on understanding women becuz guys are stable in most things women arent its not because your simple or predictable its becuz your umm easier i guess

good question i have no idea why. I think we give women too much attention and thats why they get so emotional when we ignore them. But women aren't nearly as complicated as they pretend to be I had figured out a few of them.

First off Great point!!!!!!!! I think you are dead on! I would why people/women don't understand/or try to is simple. The second a woman is confronted with how clean and easy the world looks from a mans perspective they reject it. Women view the world as complex, many layered, and often dark and evil. Which leads them to think that men do the same. . .but worse. That they make it happen. They view men as being responsible for this complexity, and awfulness. Both through history and via every day interactions. . . They make us out to be the monster. . .and people never try to understand the monster.

Not true. I can honestly say that I don't understand men. Don't understand their actions. Very frustrating. They lack communication. Example: Why can't a guy just simply tell a girl that he is no longer interested or wants out instead of just cutting her off/ignoring her? And don't tell me it's because they want to spare our feelings. Once and for all I just want to say one thing to all you men and women out there that do the same. Don't ever think your doing the person any good by "sparing" their feelings. By telling them the truth and being straight forward helps them to move on in a MUCH healthier way instead of wondering "why?" and going crazy.

Again, men ARE simple. When my husband says he's hungry, he wants food. He doesn't care what kind, he just wants food. When he's horny, he wants sex. Anatomical sex that leads to an orgasm. When I ask what he wants to do today and he says he doesn't care, he really doesn't care. When I'm hungry, I know exactly what I want, but might not say it directly because I'm pmsing and feeling fat and admitting that I want a giant burrito will make me feel fat. I haven't eaten all day because I'm trying so hard to stay thin so that men and other women don't hurt my already fragile self esteem, so I want the EXACT burrito that I've been thinking about all day, and if you don't know where I want that burrito from, it means that you haven't noticed the last 18 thousand times that I've said it's my favorite burrito. When I'm horny, I'm usually on the rag and that's just gross. When I want sex, it really means that I want to feel close to him physically and emotionally and I want to fall asleep in his arms feeling loved and accepted. Whether or not I get an orgasm doesn't always matter cuz the next morning when he's in the shower, I'll grab my vibrator and finish myself off in about two minutes. When he asks what I want to do today, I care, but I have to be in the right mood, not feel bloated, not be worried that I'm too fat, have a good hair day, have all important things like bills and housework and taking care of the dog and laundry done...you get the drift. If you don't think women really are more complicated than men, you just don't get women.

Because women demand to be understood.

Women don't know about me, trust me. Whoever told you that is a man. Because women are always wondering about men's behavior.

I think you're wrong, there's no more emphasis on understanding women than on understanding men. Maybe it's cause you're a man so you hear it more often about women.