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I feel like if anything more goes wrong, suicide will become an option...?

  • I feel like I am worthless. Like I'm nothing at all. I feel so empty and lonely and I just want this feeling to stop. The story is that a girl that I'm in love with has just destroyed me. She was in a relationship when I met her, but as soon as I met her there was an unavoidable spark that I couldn't ignore. We started an affair, and soon enough she told me she was in love with me and I told her I was in love with her. Everything was picture perfect, except for the fact that she was still in love with her boyfriend as well. Their relationship has been rocky before she had even met me, however, she was still very much in love with him, but soon after she had met me, they broke up. I thought that things were looking up for me and her, and I was certain that this was the girl I wanted to be with forever, but months went by and things started slowly falling apart. She mentioned that she still missed him. Then a few days later she told me that she did not love me anymore, merely "liked me very much". She told me that she was still in love with her ex boyfriend and still wanted to be with him, however she wanted to be with me too. I tried to deal with this, but I found myself getting more depressed with each and every day. So now, I am writing this because my sadness and irritability has finally pushed her away. She told me that she does not even like me anymore. We agreed to give it another month to see how things would work out, but I do not see things getting better. I feel like I'm losing her. I've already lost her. She is already over me, I can tell. She stopped caring for me, while I would gladly die to see her smile at me, to have her kiss me like she used to. I just wish so badly that I could forget everything and be my normal happy self to win her back, but knowing that she doesn't give a damn about me, knowing that she loves another guy, knowing she wants someone else, knowing that I love her more than anything in the world makes it impossible for me to feel any bit happy. I've tried to walk away from her and break things off, and I always end up going right back to her. I miss her too much to stay away from her, even though when I'm with her, it feels like it's slowly killing me. Every time I think of her I feel so happy, but at the same time I feel like someone just pushed a knife through my chest. With every passing day, I think of suicide more and more. It seems like if I were to die, it would make her happy by allowing her to be with the person she truly loves. I know it is a selfish and cowardly thing to do, but I have no relatives that would care if I am dead, and all of my friends are superficial, they would not care. The only person I felt a true bond with is this girl, and she does not care. How do I win her back? How do I walk away from her? How do I stop this feeling? I'm slowly dying already.

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    This is the sad product of a broken home and unfit parents... If you can't move on and you're truly considering suicide, get some help. You can't force love on your partners, that's just the way it works. People break up everyday, it's an absolutely normal facet of relationships. Don't get so worked over something so minimal, it seriously isn't the end of the world. Telling her you'll kill yourself if she leaves you will only make her loathe you down the road. If necessary: http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

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Don't do it!! There's some girl out there thats JUST FOR YOU! keep thinking that. i know it seems like the world is coming to an end and theres just no purpose for your life anymore, but DONT buy into that lie. cuz thats what it is. a big LIE! trust me, theres other amazing girls out there. and you need to be on the lookout. my personal opinion is- when you're heartbroken over one love, then you need to look for a new one. they may have had the same heartbreak and you can lean on each other through this hard time. and before you know it, you'll be so crazy in love with the new girl, you wont even remember the old! best wishes!

Tell her how you constantly think of her but don't menition suicide, it will freak her out and you can kiss your chance goodbye. I once thought of it myself..... for about 3 hrs. Thank GOD I got over it; optimism and music really helps. Please think this through

You're not being patient. Give it more time, in fact, ALOT more time and things will get better. Every time you consider suicide is just your emotions getting the better of you. Ignore any thought of getting her back, it's not gonna happen. And keep a busy routine so you can avoid thinking of her. Like I said earlier, you have nothing more than a broken heart and you just need alot more time. We've all been there and it sucks, it's called life. The only thing suicide would do is probably make her feel horrible about herself and repeatedly blame herself for your suicide for the rest of her life. Committing suicide would be the worst thing you could do.

http://suicidehotlines.com/national.html http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ Please go to these sites and talk to somebody. I don't want you to do something you will regret. You will get over her someday. Just keep reminding yourself of that. You will find someone worth while and then you will completely forget about her. Please don't hurt yourself.

The Lord loves you, and your life, although He does NOT agree with the way you are living your life. For one thing, dating is wrong, and if you would like to know the reasons, please, email me on my page, and I can give you more answers. Suicide is wrong, and if you commite suicide, you will go to Hell, which is a terrible place of fire and brimstone. Also, if you want to know how to be saved by God's grace, please, go to my page and email me!!!!! I am a servant of the Lord, and want to help those who are in need. PLEASE, ANYONE WHO IS IN DISTRESS OVER ANYTHING, PLEASE, EMAIL ME!!!!! I CAN HELP. May God Bless Each and Everyone of You!!! A Servant of the Lord

First understand your relationship is not your downfall. You are seeking to live through someone else because your self esteem is really low. It's not this girl's fault you feel this way, it's the world you've created around you. You need emotional support but not from this type of relationship. You need to iron out your personal issues before getting into a romantic relationship so you're not using the person as an emotional crutch. There is nothing romantic about being someone's crutch. Try visiting teenhopeline.com for live chat or call 1-800-394-HOPE (4673) to speak with someone that can offer you the support you need. You are a valuable and loved soul my friend. Don't give up and don't lose hope, there are people that care. Thanks for sharing with us.

I've been there and your right it sucks, but if you want to win her back or even just get over her you've got to ignore her. I don't mean totally brush her off and not say a single word to her but prove to her that you can be okay on your own. This may sound stupid and i know some girls will disagree with this but a girl really wants a man to take care of her. Biologically speaking she want the mate that can provide the most for her. As for the depression, you need to find an outlet. this can be anything. i used art and acting but you could dive into sports, school, anything you want. But believe me you don't want to dive in to harming yourself or any further. I know it hurts now but it will get better.

I suggest you get a dog. Like a dachshund or something like that. A girl dog. My dog helped me when i still had her. try calling this number 1-800-273-8255. Dont give up on life. Theres always someone out there who cares for you.

dude its a girl get the **** over it. if you are in highschool then it is all fake. all relationships are fake in highschool just remember it all gets better i know you dont think now but theres better girls out there m8 trusttttt meee been there done that glad im still alive

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