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  • I really need some sort of advice on this. I've been living with what I thought was the woman of my dreams but now she's driving me insane. I'm 22 years old and I'm living with a 38 year old woman, I know it sounds weird but she's actually very pretty, she has really nice breast implants, and she's divorced from this really rich old guy and has A LOT of money. Anyways, I've lived with her since I was 19, I met her for the first time when I was 15 and I could tell she liked me, she is one of my mom's friends, well was they don't talk much anymore, but anyway I started dating her after I turned 19, and I loved going out with her, she would buy me alcohol, pay for my gym membership, a personal trainer, and bought me a lot of stuff! I thought I was living the dream, so some time later she asked me to move in with her and I did. Ok skipping ahead, I live with her now at her house (or should I say her ex-husband's house) and it is huge!!!! it has a swimming pool, and like a bunch of rooms, I loved living there, she even let me put my xbox in the living room hooked up to a giant TV! but I know all this sounds awesome but the past 2 years have kinda been bittersweet, see she's an alcoholic, and I mean a really big alcoholic, I haven't really counted how much she drinks a day but AT LEAST 2 bottles of Gin. It's been getting really annoying, when she's drunk, she gets really depressed and starts crying and yelling and vomiting all over the place and I have to take care of her during that! for some reason if I just go back to playing my video games and ignoring her when she's drunk, she gets really upset and starts throwing things, hitting me, and the other day she broke my xbox!!! now she bought me another one the other day but come on! I was in the middle of playing skyrim! Now I don't know what to do, her little drunken situations have been going on everyday now, and it's really making my life a living nightmare! i feel like a babysitter and the worst part is that when she's drunk and drinking more she wants me to drink liquor too! so i've done it to not upset her and now i'm waking up with a hangover as well! and the other day she got us both arrested after getting blazing drunk at a nice restaurant! she got arrested for public intoxication and i got arrested for disorderly conduct for maybe insulting the cops! it was so embarrasing. So could I please get some advice as to what to do here? I really like this woman and I had been hoping to someday marry her, but now I feel so scared everyday when I see her drinking because I know what my night will be like! It's like taking care of a baby! and she doesn't even seem that hot anymore! I mean she still somehow I don't know how has a good body but seeing her drooling and vomiting everywhere is digusting! So can I get some advice? What can I do? this woman pays for everything I do and is my meal ticket, and I'm pretty sure no other girl would even date me, so maybe I still have a pretty sweet deal. So how can I get her better without upsetting her? because I'm getting sick and tired of walking her at 2 in the morning while she walks outside drunk and falling everywhere and wants me to go with her! Can I get some advice? Ironically when I first met her I was the "alcoholic" as an underage drinker of 19 I drank about 6 beers a day! and I actually thought it was a lot

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    Are you for real, go back to your mom's house. Make your own money and the girls will come. And if they don't you can just buy one j/k no really go back home and figure out what you wanna do with yourself. Best of Luck.

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You should gradually move out, get a job and fend for yourself. The life you're living isn't real and should not last. You and your girlfriends will either spend most of your lives in hospitals or in/out with liver disease and associated problems. Drinking is a serious illness and you should help your gf get real treatment in an alcohol abuse center. Good luck, dude. :o)

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