What are some things to talk about during a first date? And how do you keep the conversation going?
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I have somewhat of a communication problem ... so it's very hard for me to keep a conversation going. I heard that by making comments of what the person is saying, then that could also help keep the convo going, should I do that too? For example: Her: I'm going to my uncle's house next week, I don't really wanna go but too bad my parents forced me to go. Me: Awww that sucks. Well, why don't you just tell them that you don't feel like going because you don't feel so good. Another example: Her: Wow, it's very nice out today. Me: Yeah, it sure is. Maybe we could take a walk outside and later tonight we could go to the movies or something! Did I comment on her correctly or is that incorrect? There's usually awkward silences because often times I have no idea what to say to her ... and then she'll start giving me weird looks. What could I do to avoid awkward silences? It makes me scared when I am at a loss of what to say ...
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Answer:
its very simple what to talk about on the first date, and that is to be totally up-front and honest about what you wanti.e, (YOUR AGENDA) Oh yes,and that way you shall be commanding respect immediately, and that usually robs negative energy from slowly creeping in, and being shut down with negative energy. If you want sex, then say so,its ok to be honest. silence means there is a lot going on thats not being spoken about, and it is usually fear based. give yourself permission to be honest and open. there are many ways to be honest.
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Silence can be good. Gives you a chance to chew your food. It sounds like you're trying to steer her into your direction. Using the examples you have given: Her: I'm going to my uncle's house next week. I don't really wanna go but too bad my parents forced me to go. You: I know what you mean. Her: Wow, it's very nice out today. You: Let's take our [coffee, bagels, whatever] outside and enjoy the day. Women like men who listen to them, not those who have a barely hidden agenda .
Seems like you are answering appropriately. If she is giving you weird looks maybe it is because she hasn't mastered the art of conversation yet and needs a bit of help. I adore those awkward silences- tells a lot about a person. Just enjoy the silence, together.
Just talk about each other, and basically everything else you mentioned..
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