What's the fanciest/sweetest coffee you can find?

HELP ME!! REAL WEIRD STORY.?

• Man. I am so frustrated right now. I dated this guy; he's cool, we have a lot in common, he's a nice guy just a bit on the confusing side. But I dated him from April to July- we broke up because of his schedule; He's a busy guy- I wasn't a busy girl. This breakup lasted all but about three days. We hung out he kissed me on the forehead I got all freaked out what did it mean if we werent dating.. It was weird. I thought friends had space. I didnt get a chance to heal from rejection and his confusing lead on's when we hung out again so I said "can we just be dating" cause I really do like him he said yes I just want you to be happy. This was definatly a mistake of mine (I didnt realize that till now) He is so busy- just even more busy now that school has started up again. He's got 20 credits in college, and two jobs. In july we got back together, and dated till up till school started. I was definatly annoyed at the fact that when we hung out it would be super late at night and I was just straight up boring then- falling asleep and watching movies. whats the fun in that? psh. I dont want to do that. I'm young- I wanna have a good time. He's just too damn busy for anything really serious but at the time I didnt really take that and run with it- I didnt understand. I'd totally be down for that especially with him but I'm an idiot and made a mistake i freaked out was all desperate just like for a relationship even though I wasnt getting that from him because hes got stuff to do and I understand that stuff is very important stuff. He told me he didnt want a girlfriend but he wasnt going anywhere (like as in he wasnt not going to be my friend). I freaked out at him when we were breaking up because my emotions got the best of me plus he was being a jerk which made me be a jerk. After all of this non-sense, a week had passed. I felt like such an idiot for acting how I did so I called and left a voicemail and said I was sorry about the fight and that I see where he is coming from and asked him to call me back. He didnt call back. Five days later, I texted him just saying that I had been nervous calling him, it was risky and didnt get its point across as to I still want to be friends. He didn't answer. This was all before I started reading get your ex back guides and actually helping myself and looking at what I was doing that was wrong. I contacted him too soon according to the guide. So i stopped. He texted me asking if I wanted to do his bosses hair and makeup for a christening. (Im a freelance hair and makeup artist) Obviously he didnt have to do that- I kept the convo light just talking about that. About a week passed, (sept. 30th) I got a text from him I find totally bizzare. He said "So I was cleaning my room, and I found a pair of underwear and they are definatly yours" It took me a bit to process but I tried to be witty and said I was looking for those haha and how are you? whats up? he said "they are kind of dirty, Im alright just busier than ever, but getting by" note he did not ask me how I am. I said I assumed they would be, you can just throw them out if you havent already. Thats good that you are busy. Work's been busy actually about to go do a booking- Ill text you later maybe we can get coffee next week or something. he said yeah cool. about five days later i said "about that coffee, when do you have some free time?" he told me his schedule then said to be i have to figure out when to be completly honest". I said thats why i asked haha. I realized I had some baggage In the relationship- and why if I was him I wouldnt want to date me either. I'm not that bad though hahaha. Like for example- My self esteem and self confidence. He doesn't know that I am fixing it cause he hasnt really tried to make that much of an effort. I wasn't completly happy with how I was acting- knowing he doesnt have time for a solid relationship made me not that happy but I get it- I still want him around. I am getting my **** together. I lost some poundage and am feeling a lot better about myself and more confident- Here's the twist. I was on facebook- and went onto his page- as of a few days ago hes "in a relationship with some girl" I mean it can't be that serious first off a week ago you were just telling me you found my underwear in your room- plus she's straight up from Germany and you don't have time.OH and you invited a different girl to your sisters wedding- its cool though. I haven't said anything since that coffee comment and honestly have no idea what to do. I'm not tryin to get rejected, and im not trying to be desperate I don't need to be. I know dating is a good thing. If he wasn't into me wouldnt he not talk to me at all? Why's he being all weird? and flakey about coffee it aint a big deal. I am doing stuff to make myself happy, keeping busy hanging with friends, j

• Answer:

  Wrong section. He may still have feelings for you.