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• this is a long story but i need some help. I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost half a year. I love him more than any other boy and i gave my virginity to him.. His parents are VERY over protective. as in, they wont let him leave the house, go anywhere or do anything. He is 17 and a half years old and in college! And he has no privileges what so ever and they wont even let him get a job. Well i love this boy a lot and we are planning on getting married someday when were both out of school.. and my parents are totally okay with our relationship, but his parents don't want him to have a gf, even though he is 17... So yesterday he got so fed up with it when his mom said he couldn't go anywhere (again) that he just went anyway. he left a note saying that he would be back in a couple hours and that he was just mad. So he came and hung out with me.. his mom called him and found out he left anyway and yelled at him and hung up. he knew he was in trouble so he didn't go home. he stayed with me. His parents called the cops and said that he ran away!!! so the cops contacted him and told him he needed to go home or else an officer would come and get him. so he said fine. and we waited for the officer. no one ever came. because me, him and my mom were gonna work something out so h didn't have to go home to his furious, over bearing parents who r Absolutely physco.. the cops called back an hour later telling him to go home and he said he was waiting for an officer. but they told him that one wasn't going to come anyway and they told him to go home because it was almost curfew. so my mom drove him and walked him to the door, she made me stay home in case it got ugly because his parents hate me, and it did.. the door opened and his mom started screaming at my mom, calling me an ugly whore and saying my brother was a pothead and lieing and saying dat i go to the river and have sex with guys!! when its HER son who i gave my virginity to! his dad physically pulled him into the house and slammed the door on my mother. she came home and called the cops and told them to go check on him and make sure that he wasn't getting beaten because his dad had hit him before. and she left saying he was fine. but he was so angry. then his parents took his phone, his computer, his fan, his CLOTHES, his shaver, all the pictures of me, his money, his house keys and everything else in between and he's on house arrest and he didn't even do anything! and they said he can never see or talk to me again!! and of course he found a way to contact me and tell me all this but all i know is that he got everything taken and he wants out. we both agreed dat we are NOT going to break up and that we will wait for each other until he can get out. my question is, is there ANY POSSIBLE WAY to get him out of that house at 17 and a half years old without getting emancipated??? because since he cant lave the house he cant get emancipated or get money or anything.. what do i do for him?? he is in hell and he didn't do anything to deserve this... please just help me get the poor boy out. his parents have controlled and manipulated him his whole life and they blame everything he does that they dint like, on me. and me and him are both good kids! we just fell in love and his parents didn't like it.. i have always been nice to them and even to this day have never said any man things to them. i care deeply about their son and just have to get him out of there. Please help me...

• Answer:

  Ok, first of all in my opinion, if he's 17 then I'm sure you're around the same age and if his parents have rules that he doesn't want to obey then the only option for him is to leave and be on his own. Their roof, their rules. I'm 22 and had a three year relationship at your age, so from my life experience your second option is.. you're young and he isn't the only fish in the sea. Whether his parents are stopping your relationship now, or later they will always be there, they're his parents. If they're causing you this much trouble already what do you think the future holds. I know it may sound cold hearted but you have to realize something.. If you lost your virginity to him, you have something that us men call one-itis. You can't save him every time he has a problem, like I said they're his parents and they will be there for a very very long time. Unless he's willing to leave his parents house and has somewhere else to live, it's something he has to live with no matter how "unfair" it is. You have to look at his parents point of view, they're doing what they believe is right for him, no matter who agrees or disagrees with them. It's their son and if he loved you as much as it seems you love him that's still SOOOOO much to sacrifice for a girl at 17. He's 17, they cannot force him to live there, if he wants to leave he can, and if he really wants to be with you THAT badly he will. The ball is in his court, it's his decision not yours. I'm sorry if this isn't want you wanted to hear or if I'm comming off rude but it's the reality of the situation. I moved out of my parents house at 17 to escape their "rules and regulations". Soon after realizing that they are my parents and they were only doing what they thought was best for me in the long run. Sorry if this isn't the opinion you're looking for. Good luck, and remember you're young and already deciding that you're going to get married to him when he's the only person you've been with is an uneducated decision in my opinion. later...