How do I break up with my boyfriend?

How do I break up with my boyfriend?

  • me & my husband have been seperated because I had an affair. I apologized and its been really hard for him to decide if he wants to take me back but he wants to take me on a date this saturday and he said if it goes good which it will that he will take me back, but the thing is i've gotten a boyfriend while ive been seperating (im not in love with him) and my husband said that i have to reak up with him before saturday because if i really love him (my husband) then i will prove it but my boyfriend says hes in love with me and we've only been together for 12 days but hes really sweet and i want to break up with him but when should i now or wait til saturday and how do i break up with him without hurting him too bad like what should i say cause i already told him me and my husband were completely over cause i thought my husband was thru with me for good. please help Oh yeah and my husband 'said' it would be most likely a yes but what if everythig goes good and he still says no and i break up with my boyfriend who is the sweetest guy ever... I guess at least i can say i tried?

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    Sweetie Break Up With Him ! It's Your Husband , Even Though The Emotion Of Having An Affair Is Goood , Please Dump Him ! Get with your husbandd <3 answer mines !!!!! :( Well i have been going out with a guy barely for the second day , i liked him for a while then stopped then started again. On sunday he said he liked me and asked me out , for a few hours i was really happy then i got over it , now im happy again , well i've been talking to him by text and myspace for 1 month, i see him on sundays and saturdays and were going to the movies on friday should i mack it up with him ? and why am i happy one second and not the other ? he said i love you babe already its the second day ! he said he felt different while talking to me like he was gonna fall in love , what do i doo ?

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You basically have 2 options: – If you love your husband and you will do everything in your power to keep him, then you have to break up with your boyfriend. Even if that means a month from now your husband decides that he changed his mind and wants a divorce, and you lost out on both your husband and your boyfriend. – 2nd option is, stick with your boyfriend. If you do this, you will never have the chance to reconcile with your husband. There is the chance that you and your boyfriend will break up down the road and you lost out on both your boyfriend and your husband. Basically in both scenarios, you have the potential to lose both - but which person do you see yourself being happier with? Also, you have to ask yourself why you cheated on your husband in the first place, and why you found a boyfriend so quickly after your affair. If you are just not ready for that commitment, then getting back together with your husband seems pointless.

i believe that if you were happy with the life you had with your husband then you would have never had an affair. i don't think you deserve him. because you found another man while the two of you were separated makes the matter even worse. you sound completely selfish. it sounds to me that you feel like you need a man to mentally stimulate you. your not looking for real love. i think you should let your husband go so he can find a woman who will love him the way a man should be loved by a woman. you should tell your husband that he deserves better.

Do you really want your husband back? Because if you do, then you should have no problem doing what he has asked of you. Why should he want you back if you can't end a twelve day old acquaintance to salvage your marriage? You committed the act which led to your breakup. It should be you that makes a sacrifice to repair the damage done. If you are more worried about hurting someone you barely know over someone you claim to love and want to be with, then you don't deserve to have him forgive you in the first place.

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