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Am I being sexually harassed?

Ive been sexually harassed a few years ago?

  • i have been sexually harassed by someone i know,which only makes it worse. i know i have told my boyfriend about it and he is completely understanding about where im coming from. i have told him that did want to have have sex but when we tried it didn't go in so then i didn't want to have sex but i truly do love him him and i do want to have a sexual relationship but i sit here and blame myself for my past so what do and should i do???

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    i dont think you worded that right. sexual harassment is when a person, usually a coworker, grabs your butt, or talks about your breasts. and you dont like it. maybe you mean sexually abused (like molested or raped)? in which case its not your fault, and if you dont feel comfortable having sex, maybe you shouldnt. sex is actually a very small part of a relationship. and if its going to upset you, then dont do it. your boyfriend will understand, and if he doesnt you need a new boyfriend.

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you should not put all the blame on yourself! your boyfriend was there 2 so he is to blame as well and don't worry and if you want to have a sexual relationship (sex) then tell him and try again if you and him want 2.

Sometimes people do have trouble getting it to go in. It's normal. While I'm not going to promote your sexual life before marriage, I will advise that you keep reminding yourself that it was not your fault what happened to you. A method to help with this would be whenever you start thinking about it and blaming yourself, give yourself positive self-talk. "No I'm not going to think like that I've moved on." and then preoccupy yourself with something. Keep talking about it to your bf/trusted family member/friend. Always try to look on the bright side of things and never give yourself negative talk. You can achieve whatever despite other people thinking you can't, but if you think you can't then you're dead. Life's too short to hold onto bad experiences yeh

try and get professional help to get over your bad feelings hope this helps sorry about ur past

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