Am I a loser for leaving the person I love because I don't want to live abroad?
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My boyfriend of 6 years has been offered a job in France. (he is 30 I am 26) He has been struggling to get a job in the UK for a year now. He wants to move to France and never come back to England because he hates it. We are totally in love with each other, we are best friends but I don't know whether I can face living in France. He loves France I just find it ok and my french is ok but not that good so I think I will struggle to find any work there. When we talk about living there together I just feel stressed (although I feel equally stressed when I think of being away from him). Also I suffer from an anxiety disorder so I'm afraid how I will cope with the stress of moving to another country. Is it right that I'm leaving someone I love because I don't think I can cope abroad? Is it a stupid excuse?
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Answer:
Good grief France is hardly the end of the earth is it, my gut reaction is give it a go, nothing ventured and all that. And if after a while you really don't like it you can always return on your own.
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Other answers
Do what your heart says.There may be confusion whether to stay with your lover or not. But you know, your heart knows what to do.Stay calm, think analyse and go for it. Whatever happens, it happens for our good. Pray God.You will definetly get the answer that will be helpful for u. Goodluck:)
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