Boyfriend constantly looks at porn?

I understand him being that i had an issue with it drove my girl nuts with the shiz I was lookin at .Its an unhealthy habit that gets worse he will realize that when he loses somone he loves . Its a ruff road having trust issues. Also he does have a concious mind to let you know your prettyer because he feels guilty of looking at somthing he knows is not appropriate.

hes 19 so that means he super horny ALL the time. they look at porn because its something that theyre are not getting from their partner. hes trying to make you feel better when he says your prettier. i dont like my boyfriend looking at porn because whats the point if im right here. if you dont trust him dont take the ring. it would just get messier. if he really wants to be with you he'd stop or at least hide it better. i would tell him i dont trust him. he needs to earn that trust

If that's causing a problem (which it seems to be) then just leave him. You shouldn't have to compromise to his porn addiction just because people say it's normal that all guys watch porn. Trust me, that would bother me, and I would not put up dealing with that if it bothered me. Find a guy that is respectful and not into so much sex. Find one that respects you. That is not healthy for you and your relationship. It will eventually lead to other things, and instead of dealing with that later, you should just prevent it now. :)

Every guy looks at porn even if they have a perfectly hot gf, and they are getting lots of sex they will still look at porn thats just the way it is. If ur bf was addicted to porn you would definintly know, he would be watching it constantly, and he would avoid doing anything else but watching it, guys with that addiction are serious about it, so I doubt hes addicted to it he probably just watches it as much as the next guy. As for him looking at other girls he probably does, but iam sure you look at other guys whether it be celebrity , or a dude walking down the street, we all do sometimes its normal! as long as hes not touching then your fine. I think that from what you've wrote something he's done to you in the past is obviously at play here, you seem to be watching his every move and thinking things of it (which is totally normal and acceptable if hes done something to make u not trust him) however if you guys want to make this relationship a lasting one, both u and him need to discuss these issues no matter how silly or disturbing they may be you have to be honest. Perhaps he doesn't know how bad you really feel about him watching porn, most guys don't know how much it bothers there gf so let him know and explain things to him calmly and try and see if that helps. As for when u say another girl is pretty, no guys is going to agree with u on that for fear of u going crazy which is understandable on his part.

One has to go back to the dawn of man to fully understand your dilema. In the begiinning man had two basic drves. TO CONTINUE TO EXIST AND TO REPRODUCE. Apparently your boyfriend has no problem existing. Living with Mom and Dad and feeding off the fat of the land. His desire for multiple sexual partners is understandable but it is usually controlled by NORMAL HUMAN BEINGS. He is a young sexually active BOY who wishes to spread his seed much like Johnny Appleseed. UnfortunaTELY THERE ARE MANY FEMALES WHO WILL BE MORE THEN WILL TO ASSIST HIM IN THE SEED SPREADING PROGRAM. If you stay with this sexual dynamo you will be sunjected to a life and his farming other fields. Wise up and do what is right for you. It is obvious that he does not have your best interest in mind.

Haha. You guys sound so much like me and my ex. We had the same problem. Listen, I don't know if all guys are this way and some are better at hiding it, but I can't just "tune in" to one woman and instantly believe that all other three billion or so women in the world are unattractive. Whenever a guy tells you that you're the most beautiful woman in the world (or similar compliments) you should take it as an honest compliment because we can really mean it, but remember that no woman can be "the prettiest" any more than any man can be "the most handsome". Everyone has different qualities. He does find many other women attractive, but he chooses to be with you because he likes your qualities more than any other woman's. About the porn thing, well, don't let it bother you. It's hard to explain if you're not a "sexual person" but basically he doesn't watch porn for the sake of the girls in it, he does it for the sexual stimulation which is a sub-conscious matter and whether the girl in the video is prettier than you or not doesn't matter. Heck, it doesn't even matter if she is a girl or a man or an animal. I'm sure he wouldn't have sex with another man or an animal given the chance, but it can provide a certain kind of arousal. You're probably grossed out by now; you should know that anybody who watches porn on such a regular basis is bound to be attracted to increasingly bizarre things. If you can't accept this then I recommend you look elsewhere - but I'm sure that it took a lot of gut for him to confess this and it would hurt him badly if you dumped him solely for this reason. I guess this is an unhealthy habit, but nothing you tell him will make him stop. At the very most he will decide to try for the sake of your relationship, but this will backfire on him because as soon as he realizes that he is unable to drop the addiction (maybe a week or two) he will be forced to lie to you - and lying to your girlfriend never ends well. So don't push him, if you love him. Okay, after saying all of that I realized one thing: if you guys don't have compatible levels of libido then a romantic relationship will most likely not work. I know that you don't want to hear it. As a matter of fact, I asked a similar question right here two years ago when I was in your shoes. I got the same thing: "you'll break up eventually". I hated it but it happened a few months after. Good luck either way, to the both of you.