How do I change my personal goal for Relay for Life?

I have no social life any more, I can't go on living like this but, how do I change my situation? I need help?

• Okay, so I'm 23 years old and I'm sick to death of not having a social life. My social life went downhill ever since my mum died when I was 13, before then I was hanging out with friends and playing out all the time, but now, nothing at all! When I started college ( UK ) I had a little bit of a social life, but then it all went downhill again the next year. I just can't live like this, I'm fed up with being a social lepur and not going out on the weekends. It's a Saturday today and apart from going gym this morning, I have no plans for tonight! All these people who go out and have a good time, then there's me, who is sitting home on my laptop doing absolutely nothing. Obviously I want to change the way my life is, but how? At the moment I feel hopeless! I have nothing to feel good about in my life, nothing at all. I am not in education, I'm not in work (even though I am applying and actively looking for work), I can't drive, and I live at home with my dad. He is getting fed up with my depressive state and mood swings (sometimes I snap at him for no reason!). I just feel like I'm in a massive rut and I don't know how to get out of it. I feel like I'm so unfortunate in everything I do, even making friends and getting a social life. I am single because I have no social life, therefore I don't get the chance to meet girls. I can't carry on being 23 years old, then 24, then 25, then the next thing I know, I'll be 30 and single! I need to do something, but how do I change my life? How do I meet new people? Please guys, I could really use some helpful advice.

• Answer:

  You should think to yourself would my mum want me to be like this as she wouldn't ur mum wouldn't want to see u stay in all the time start by doing small things at a time like one day or night go to a freind house then a few wekks or less later go to a pub for a little bit then same go to a club with freinds you need to work up to it as it won't happing over night as I am kind of in the same boat as u and that's what I am trying and its helping a bit