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Should I take a break from gradschool?

MY Gf Wants To TAKE A BREAK( of 2 months) Please HELP?

  • ok so yesterday i was with my gf and she was acting weird so i told her whats wrong and it took a while to take it out of her, and she siad " maybe we should have got to know each other as friends first we got into this realationship to fast" then i told her well were getting to know each other right now why does that matter. so anyways then were in the car and am telling her why do you have to feel like that with a guy who cares so much about you and she was like" I just feel that way and i dont want a bf now( while crying). so then i just started telling her again about what she wanted if she wanted a guy who treated her with love or just like ****?. and then she was like look lets just take a break for a month and still be bf and gf. and then i tell her " what you wanna take a break to be with other guys or be with your friends and club" and she was like no you know that am allways buzy with school and all. so then i just keep on telling her your messing up something with a guy who truly cares about you and she was like iknow. but then for like for 1 sec she like" maybe am wrong". so then she siad:" please just give it month and i promise we will be together" and i was like please if we take a break that will just make us more apart. so she siad the same thing again and i told her i didnt want to lose her and she siad the same crying. so anyways then she drove me to work and before i got out i told her you know what i know whats going to happen were going to ake a breaka dn then your just going to break up with me so lets just end it now and go our own ways so that i dont get more hurt.so i told her that like 5 times over the time we were driving and alltimes she " please john i dont want to lose you i wont except that of just saying good bye. PLEASE HELP WHATS GOING ON HERE

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    sounds like she's bored with you or maybe herself

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she wants out cos she fancies someone else. Plain as day son

Yeah... noones reading that. though its not your fault, my big sister is taking a "break" from her BF, shes a little mad at him cause he doesn't understand that it not cause of him. but you can still be friends without being GF/BF.

First, I would reread this entry and fix the errors, then repost. I think a lot of people probably gave up on trying to read this... That said, it could be that she is interested in another guy, but she's probably just overwhelmed with the idea of a relationship. You could go either way on this one. If you want to protect yourself, I would cut it off, since you're right that she might break it off anyway. But if you love and trust her, then trying out the break might not be a bad idea. But *really* make it a break- don't even call her or email. Being totally without you for even a few days might make her realize what that she should be with you. Also, set rules for the break. *Tell* her that you don't want her seeing other people!

She wants someone else. If a girl asks for a break, that means she wants to go do someone else without feeling like shes cheating. Dump her and find a new one. There are too many fish in the sea to eat the same one everyday. aiyhwh

You listen to her. Maybe she's just candid in telling you that she wants to focus more on her studies and you should be happy that she is giving more priority to her education than your relationship. After all, if she is successful and get a good paying career and you are destined for each other, then it's your family that will benefit for that little sacrifice. However, if you insist on this close relationship and continue dating, the next stage is teenage pregnancy . And that will delay and frustrate your dreams of having a career and a happy family in the future. Having a little break will give each one ample time to think if you really meant for each other. If she left you for good, then, that is good for you because it happens before your marriage. There are many fishes in the ocean, so they say, and for sure you can still find another girl.

Girl code, "let's take a break" translates into "I'm bored and want to be with other guys". Sorry man.

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