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How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating on you?

My boyfriend thinks i'm cheating on him & i don't know how to convince him i'm not!?

  • I need help, my boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year and for the past few months he's been really convinced that I'm cheating on him. I've always been completely honest with him so I don't see why he thinks differently. I'm 29 weeks pregnant with his baby, so there's no way I'm splitting up with him. He also lives with me, he moved in with me and my foster family. And we'll soon be getting a place of our own after the baby's born. I know he has trust issues because he's been cheated on in past relationships. But I feel like he's trying to control me, he looks through my facebook, when I was at college he wouldn't let me wear padded bras or lip gloss because he'd think I'd be trying to impress other boys, and he's also looked in my underwear to see if i've been cheating on him, and if there's anything in there i'll get accused. It's not like we go out anywhere without each other, he works during the day and i stay at home. But like I said, I'm not going to split up with him, I just need ideas on how to sort this out.. Thanks.

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    Well I would be similar to your boyfriend Ive had the same things happen to me but I didn't go to the extent that he did but a good way is if he over heard you say that exact same thing you just wrote here, like of you were talking to one of your friends on the phone and made sure he heard you it probably would work for me if that happens with my gf or if you just confront him about it and ask him of he does think you are cheating on him and promise him that your not and prove it by hanging around him more

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maybe because he sees you reflect on you......he thinks because he is a cheater you are too..... its almost like karma.....he thinks because he did it to other people, they will do it to him too....

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i agree with shy guy

david

You accepted his controlling behavior back in college when you could have straightened him out. Now you're stuck with him and you are trying to clean up a mess you let go too far. All you can try is to ask him if he is taking the scars from his past and projecting them onto you. If he denies it, show him a list (on paper) of things he has done that makes him appear so controlling and distrustful. Then hand him a pen & paper and ask him to list all the things you have done that make him distrust you. Compare lists.

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