How do I break up with my boyfriend?

I dont know how to break up with my boyfriend?

• oki soo like for the pat 3 months i have been unhappy with in my relationship and like i had a week break from college and i was thinking about things and like i realized that the best thing i think is to break up with my bf and cus things are so bad i started to like someone else like i realized that i loved my boyfriend but i hadn't fallen in Love with him and like i met the person i like and it was great but now i dont know how to break up with my boyfriend i have been ignoring his texts and calls since yesterday and he just are you okai babes like the only reason he is saying this is cus i'm ignoring him but when he knew that i was really sad and he saw my status on fb he didn't do anything. i dont if i should Just text back saying i'm okai i just had to go hospital last night cus i was having bad pains in my stomach which in way can be true because like when i was over at his about a 4 days ago i did have pains and like i was also gonna say that i have been just thinking about things and resting. like i am really like panicy cus i dont know what to do our more like how to do it and if some words in this are miss spelt i'm sorry i am typing really fast. i know its wrong to for me to have met the guy that i like but my current bf is just like soo bsuy with getting his life together that it effectiong our realtionship and like i am unhappy i respect that fact that he wants a better life but that makes me feel that we shouldnt be together cus i need someone who can be there for me and like i can lean alot i need somewhos more grounded and like he's not like that cus he has a stressful life and so do i and stress each other out. omg like plez help me

• Answer:

  First of all, you should NEVER break up with him on his birthday. You should do it a week after his birthday. Text him saying: We need to talk. Make it sound serious. Meet up and make sure there's no distractions. Say something like it's not going as well as it should be and how you guys need time apart from each other and try it out. Or you could just tell him it's not going to work out.