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• We are nearing our first wedding anniversary in another 20 days. I am in my 9th month of pregnancy, came down to my mom's place when I was in 5th month coz of few indian traditional reasons and will be expecting the baby in another 2 or 3 weeks at max. I am quite happy about my husband that he is a very nice guy, has good nature, well understanding. But he is kinda reserved, loves to work dedicated when @ office and doesn't encourage much personal calls during office hours unless urgent. After returning home, he used to be very tired and would like to sleep off by at max 11pm coz he has to get up early by 6 and leave home by 7:30am. Also he suffered with severe back ache which we assumed to be slip-disc with sciatica which fortunately got better after 6 months. Coz of the pain too, I guess he was not able to spend much time enjoying with me. Despite understanding his situation, I often used to raise my disappointment when he wasn't spending enough time with me.Often used to point out his mistakes and his weakness, used to lecture him on the areas I see him lagging and later used to feel bad and guilty doing so. Though I strongly used to decide not to raise anything of such, I couldn't stand when he wasn't bothered as I expected him to. This repeated even after I came down to my mom's place for delivery. My this behaviour has made me lose all my confidence to face him. Now though I try to understand him most of the time and seldom confide my feelings, I feel I don't stand that good impression I could have created anymore. I feel I cannot make him feel confident about me anymore. I feel I cannot ever change the first impression I created anymore. Now most of the time I say sorry to him for the way I used to speak and also ask him what can I do to change his impression on me so that he could forget all the past and know me only the way I want him to feel. But he says he fell in love with me the first time and later how ever I change, his love remains the same. He says though he was vexed with my lectures in the beginning, now he got habituated to them. I don't understand if I should be happy or sad that he made himself bear me thinking that I wouldn't change ever. I am happy to hear that he loves me but feel quite down on thinking why I had created such an impression. Please give me kind suggestions on how to change the image that I created in his mind and replace it with a complete positive and energetic impression. Before that please suggest me with your experience whether I can do it ever. Please suggest me some tips on how to behave and how to speak so that he would enjoy my company and would love to spend time with me. Also please let me know is it wrong to tell him when he does something that hurt my feelings, when he does something wrong or when he becomes lazy or does something that I didn't feel good about. Also is it wrong thing I am doing by continuously telling him how much I love him and that how I long for his love, affection, care, understanding and attention. How often is it good or bad to tell him how special I feel when I think of him and how much I love him. Please please please..... I know and realized I did do mistakes which should not have been done. I am repenting for it and not even liking to blame it on my hormonal changes. I am not even sure if its because of pregnancy hormones. But even if it is, I don't think my husband would be able to understand it as a reason for my behaviour and even if it is, mistake done is done. I request you guys to suggest me with kind answers and not scold me. Coz I am feeling quite sensitive, and in my last stages of pregnancy and would not like to disturb my mind with any further harsh, depressed feelings that would effect my child. Please kindly understand I want to give birth with a happy and fulfilling heart but not with happiness on one side and sadness on the other side. Please suggest me kindly and I will start working on them immediately. I want to start everything with a happy heart but not with sorrow filled in for my mistakes anymore. I hope I am able to convey what exactly I meant. Please kindly understand my situation before yelling at me if you feel so and make me understand things in a kind manner. Thanking you for your moral support.

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  isn't it strange you mary someone for love and then try to change them when it was you all along that needed to change? her is what you do don't talk about it any more but prove that you are going to change your way's