Are fireworks important in a relationship? What if it's the only thing that's missing in a relationship?

I think fireworks are important. Everything else needs to be there with them though. In a sense it is kind of like if you just have the fireworks but no safety precautions (maybe things like boundaries or things in common etc) then the fireworks blow up in your face and backfire on you because you invest yourself and you get hurt. Or if you have fireworks and no night sky - the fireworks just aren't even quite as spectacular a show. The other way around, to have all those safety precautions or even just the regular night sky and no fireworks - it's not really different then any other relationship or any other person. They could really just be your plain old best friend (not saying best friends are plain and old - we all love them :P) But what I am saying is that yes it is essential - but it does not replace other things or make other things unnecessary. I'm also saying then though that it IS necessary to have them because that ONE person has to be special and different from everyone else and be able to play that role to you. You have to be attracted to them and them to you and it is therefore pretty decent grounds not to have the relationship. If the fireworks were once there - they probably can be re-lighted. If they never were or maybe they were just kind of "crush" fireworks - well we don't want just mini sparklers all our life - we want huge firewheels and big bangs etc etc. You get my point. So I don't think that this is something that will spontaneously occur. But like I said, if it was once there, I think that it is possible it could be there again, maybe you just need to change up some things in the relationship or talk about some things more or something like that. That tends then to just lead to a question regarding more things of "getting more creative". If you guys do do that, then it seems more like you are dating your best friend and not a potential husband - and I don't think you want to be married to your best friend all your life. You want to be married to your best-friend-lover. Hope that helps :)

What we are discussing here is chemistry and without it, if you are a passionate person, life can be hell. Give it lots of time to see where it's going. Do not get married or anything like that until you feel in your gut what you want. If someone is a great kisser and great lover it's not bland even if there is no relationship or no similarities. But it's the long haul that matters and if you have enjoyed great chemistry and are thinking this lacks it...it might be very important to you. But don't make the mistake of going only for chemistry because many awful relationships only have that.

maybe it is the way you kiss sometimes you have to teach a person how to kiss

no they are not

Anyting that flies in the air or reports is illegal.

i doubt if those fireworks ever come.. it's something that usually happens when you first start dating. as for whether or not the relationship should end.. that's your call. However, you might get bored really fast. In all honesty, you two are probably just good friends and don't want to admit it. for me, "fireworks" is what makes the difference between a boyfriend and a guy friend. If beliefs, values, respect and trust was all that you needed for a relationship than just about any two people could be together. it's the fireworks that makes one certain person stand out.

A relationship lacking "fireworks" usually lead to "let's be friends". Keeping a relationship passionate keeps it alive.