What should I do for Easter?

What should I do about the upcoming Easter holiday? I have a health issue and my sister is awful to me?

• I have a debilitating health issue I am still trying to resolve. I also have a really mean sister who is quite evil in my opinion. She has always been mean to me, tells me she wishes I would commit suicide, and delights in my struggles. I live out of town. My sister lives in the same city as my fatgerer. My family (extended and immediate) always celebrate Easter and the big holidays. My dad sometimes hosts Easter at his house. My aunt is having a major surgery this year and we have usually celebrated at her house. Because of her major surgery, I was thinking it would be nice if my dad hosted this year's Easter to let her take a rest. Well, I have made the decision that my sister needs to be away from me at all times because she can be really out of control with what she says and does and because of my health issue, I need to be selfish and put myself first. I do not know what to do about Easter now. My father usually sides with my sister, but maybe he is managing to act like a real parent and is now telling me that if I do not attend a family Easter party then he will not attend either since he says I am his priority with my health issue. If I do not go to Easter, my dad won't go either. My sister then would not go with her husband because it would be awkward without the rest of the family there. What should we do? I guess I cannot tell my father to disinvite my sister to Easter, but I do not want to subject myself to verbal abuse. Should I just not go to the Easter celebration?

• Answer:

  i know how you feel darling :( but i do think you should go, it would be nice to see your family members and iff your sister does start being mean or not saying very nice things, do what i do and black her out cause she may just want a reaction :) good luck and i hope this helps xxx