Im Stuck in a Open Relationship help!!!?
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I broke up with this guy 2yrs ago but for sum crazy dumb reason We both still cant let go. We are best friends that fell inlove, the timing was wrong nd it didnt work out. Now we hang out and spend everyday together like most bestfriends do. underline is we also act and do everything a couple does. i introduce him to pple as my friend nd he introduces me to pple as The woman he is going to have a baby with. We both say we dont want a relationship because the timing is really wrong. but the other night he was drivin nd stopped the car looked me the eye and said Hes inlove with me , i didnt say it bck coz im not inlove with him so i just kept quiet because i do love him but lookin bck at the past im not willing to fall inlove with him again. So this morning i sent a text sayin i dont want this anymore nd i dont want him to contact me. he sent one back sayin he wants to meet up and talk( which i know wont solve anything) coz we are going to agree on stayin only as bestfriends nd 4hrs later we will be having sex. The more we vow to stay friends the stronge the urge to want to be together gets. it feels right to act like a couple wen we are together but wen i get home and im alone i feel this is wrong! i cant handle him talkin to another woman but i also dont want to b with him knowing im not inlove and he seems to agree with me but he keeps saying. Hes still inlove with me and wants to marry me and have a baby in the future but right now is nt the time. 1 min we are bestfriends the Next we are lovers the next we are exs The next hes complaining cuz he feels he doesnt come 1st in my life anymore The next min we are having sex The next min im showing him a pic of the new guy im flirting with nd i know it Bothers him alot just like it bothers me wen he gives me his phone to read what hes sayin to a random girl hes flirting with. i dont understand open relationships and i dont want to be in one. Am i wrong for sending him a text saying i need to not be in contact?
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Answer:
You are not 'stuck' in an 'open' relationship. Just tell him it's messing with your head, and it's 100% or not. Tell him if he's flirting with other girls he obviously doesn't care that much to hear about you being with other guys. I'd advise him to leave you alone for two weeks and see how you get on after that. If you really want to be in a relationship with him then make him work for it and until he shows signs of commitment, don't have sex with him - and if you feel you will, make sure you avoid those situations. Good luck. There's plenty of more fish in the sea, plenty more men out there WHO will commit to you.
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no your not wrong for sending him the text but you are wrong for keep getting involved with him just coz you feel jealous coz he is with another girl you need to be honest with him but above all honest with your self, if deep down you really do not want to be with him then you must tell him that to his face and then stick to it and cut him out of your life. no face book, no text messages, no contact at all, that way you will move on you just need space
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