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Please help me what to do with my BF ex-live in partner..?

• My foreigner BF had a live-in partner when i met him,but he wasn't happy enough on their relationship,and there's a problem on their relationship that they're not happy..when my BF realize that he wants me,he separated with her,the problem is she suddenly wants him to stay but my BF decided not to..they're separated now,but he dont want her to get really mad and he's still there for her...but she keep on wanting to get back together,im not really sure whats their agreement about coz im far from them,but i trust him..my boyfriend telling me that he dont want to get back together,but something wrong happening coz he still let her control him,example his mobile phone,she got already my number,coz she used to check his phone,then erased all the message i sent and some of our photos when he came over here in the Philippines,and she keep on telling into him that i will just use him for the visa,which is not true coz i loved him unconditionally,she used to ring me up when his phone is engage,but i didn't tell anything..supposedly we're married but because of her it was cancelled coz he's some kinda confused about he's feelings with me,and because of her poisoning words as well..im really worried about that after how many years it will end up for nothing because of her... and just 4days ago i received a text message from an unknown in guy in Australia, that he wants me to guide him when he came over here for a month,that he's looking for someone to marry,he needs my help...i ignore his text message and told it to my BF and he said to reply it that im married and expecting baby on sept.he said let see what her x react..coz we had idea that its all her plan to use other people to prove if im slut which she failed to know,my BF asked her if she did it she said not, and the second thing was just today i heard from my boyfriend that,she told to my bf that she was sleeping and suddenly her home telephone rang call from Philippines and looking for my name together with word 'porn', and she's just relax while telling it to my bf...i said to my BF who's idiot will gonna do that,i dont even know her home number even her mobile number,and come to think of it, nobody knows her just me,if ever i know her number why should i gave it other to call her just risk my name with word porn?to think that she's my rival..so in short she's making story to let my BF mad at me and end up relationship with me...she really want to ruin our relationship.. What should i do with her and with my boyfriend,i dont want to break him coz i love him,he's my life now..please give me a serious advice coz i really dont know what to do..what do you think i will tell her?I dont talk to her even once coz we will probably argue,i dont even think bad into her,coz i want it to be fair and let my BF decide who will he choose..what should i do? i really hurt coz i got nothing to do coz im just here really far from him.. please help me guys...thank you for your time

• Answer:

  You are right to question the relationship. You can't be sure who he wants. Force him to choose and I hope it is you