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How can i get my boyfriend to stop thinking about the past and get on with his life ahead of him?

  • Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 years but the last year we split up for a bit, well i left him because it felt he was not treating me right and started to see this other guy on and off. But my boyfriend seem to think that i was cheating on him, we wont even going out. i will say that i have left my boyfriend couple of time for this guy and only been for a week or so as i miss my boyfriend and knew i had really strong feelings for him but after all this now he cant let go, which in some way i do understand that but he think this guy was better than him and other stuff like that. i try to tell him if he was so much better and that i didn't love him then i would of stay with him and wouldn't have came back to you. the thing is, i is now having his baby and he said he wants it and everything but now think it this guys when i know for a 100% its his but he not sure as his friend saying that its not his. i really scare as i don't want to lost a family but cant take my boyfriend thinking this. so will someone help me please what should i do?

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    I would sit him down and assure him that it is his child. Ask him who does he believe more? You or his friend. I don't know if you are ready or not but telling him your ready for marriage will probably remove his doubts. I'm pretty sure there is a way to get the babies DNA tested to find out who's child it is although you should not have to go through that to get your boyfriends loyalty. Tell your boyfriend that if he really loves you then he wouldn't doubt you. He would support you.

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you sound like you can't make up your mind so quit dating one guy and play the field until you are capable of being in a commited relationship

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STOP IT...STOP IT...RIGHT NOW! You have to worry about yourself. You are pregnant and all you have to worry about for the next few months is having a baby. After that you will have the responsibility of bringing up a child. Acting emotionally will only make you feel emotional. You will have a lot of hormones now. Your moods may change. Think of the baby and who will best fit into YOUR lifestyle. If they don't, then be Strong!. Do a paternity test. You may have to go through this alone. No ifs ands or buts. Make some decisions. You have another life at stake.

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