How can i win my ex back?

• my and by boyfriend was 2gether for over a year,started as friends,fell in love without realising.i've never had support from my family and when theyve left me on the streets hes been there.i moved into his family home for a few weeks whilst i found a flat, he insisted i did and offered to drive me to work every morning which meant going out of his way.after 3 weeks he split with me and said it was too much and he feels smothered and i dont apprieciate him.now i have my own place he comes round to c me and we,ve talked and are having fun together again.last wk his ex rung him who hes very close 2,asking to sleep with him.this upset me and he said he wont speak to her. last weekend at the bar we both work at she came in and he went and sat with her in front of me we had a row and i said i cant try again if your friends with her and he said okay then delete my number. not seen him since hes on a lads holiday have i been unreasonable?he said hes done nothing rong.how do i win him back?

• Answer:

  Best way to win him back is to just get on with your life. Focus on what is good for you, your work, friends, get a hobby or do something you're interested in. Keep yourself busy and at the same time you'll become more interesting and independant...what can be more attractive to someone else?! Don't try making him jealous because that is just playing games and it could backfire on you...what if he doesn't get jealous?....Or he may get jealous, want you back but once he has you decide it's still wrong...then you will be back where you are now. And who would you use to make him jealous? Will you tell that person you aren't really interested in them, because if you don't then you are unfairly playing with their emotions.