Help?? my boyfriend says he doesn't find kissing me fun?

i wanted to kiss my boyfriend a little longer when we were together last night but then he was turning his face away and said, "kissing isnt fun, i dont like it." i just kinda looked at him confused and thought, why would he say that? i got upset and had to leave the room cuz i was trying to analyze it and started getting rly upset cuz when he said that, to me it sounds like: if he doesnt find kissing fun or enjoyable, then we're not connecting since thats the most intimate thing a person can do with another person. and if he cant connect with me like that, then somethings wrong.. i just wanted to know if my conclusion makes any sense and to know that im not crazy cuz he got mad when i finally told him my thoughts, but at the end (which i know i shouldn't have said it but i did) i said: "if u cant connect with me that way, when do u? when im sucking ur dick?" that was spur of the moment i know, and it was wrong for me to say that but i was upset. he then got pissed and we left it pretty much at that last night. we're going to talk today but i wanted ur opinion on my conclusion and what i can say to get him to understand that truly hurts to hear something like that. kissing is supposed to be fun and he makes it sound like i dont make it fun.. which i know i do but obviously he doesnt feel the need to kiss so much? please help my undertsand this?? i rly appreciate it. (btw, we didnt just start dating either, he and i have been together for almost 2 years)
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Hay i think that u right about him not wanting to kiss u he probly wants something more and u shouldent have to do enything els just to keep him happy. If u feel thair is no connection then leave him.

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This should have addressed at first a bit late now. Either you accept it or leave. I have NEVER met a man that did not enjoy kissing never.

He probably just meant that he doesn't feel like kissing right now..........idk....maybe he's over you....ask him (ask him nicely this time, try to relax, its not the end of the world). Maybe he's bothered by something personally that has nothing to do with you, maybe he's mind is elsewhere, communicate without war

he may just not like kissing. my bf likes kissing to a point. like during sex he likes to kiss but at other times he only likes little kisses. and only a few french kisses. but ask him if its you or kissing in general. (i've been with my bf 5 years.)

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