Stuff to bring to the mountains?

If you had a best friend who was your wifes x and she wanted him to bring her stuff and make her stuff would?

• It be weird, and disrespectful? Or would you not mind if he cooked or brung her stuff? Or if he cleaned up the house, especially all the rooms that are her pet peeve like the dirty dishes and the bathroom? Would it bother you knew those were here pet peeves and he was doing all the stuff that annoyed her about the house? And also would it bother you if he brung her stuff and made her stuff to eat! Cause according to my wife she see's nothing wrong with it, but I do! What does everyone else think, I need more than one opinion about this!

• Answer:

  I would freak out!!!!! Seriously!!!! In this situation your wife is subconciously holding on to whatever her and her ex had. It is a situation that I would be very very nervous about. Especially if her ex was there when you are not. I would feel like I had been violated emotionally. Your home is supposed to be for you and your family (wife, kids, relatives). My wife had a similar situation with a high school friend and i came to find out she was going to cheat on me with him. So from my biased standpoint I find this to be extremely wrong.