How do I know I've reached my text limit?

Why would a guy call/text you then don't answer for a while when you call/text back?

• So Im seeing this guy who has been distant lately. For five months he would call me weekly but he went to visit family over christmas and has not reached out since he's back. I did not call him but he eventually called me. Yet when I try to respond to his text/call he takes a while to respond and the last time I called he has not responded over a week. He even sent me a message online which is random and makes no sense because he has my number so why is he sending me a message on FB? If he lost interest by chance why would he still reach out. It seems to me like he wants me to know there is an issue or something by not calling back. Ive only called to talk to him because he called me and now he has not called back since last wednesday. This makes no sense. Please help..what do you think is going on?

• Answer:

  I think it's possible he has moved on or maybe even met someone else. Maybe he's into something else now that the new year began, sounds like he wants afresh start and you're last years news? Sorry to be blunt, but if I were you I would just stop contacting him altogether. You can't keep holding on and wondering when or if he'll come back. He's already being evasive, some people don't like to be straightforward. You can always flat out ask him what's been going on but don't expect to get a direct answer if this is the way he acts. Lastly, did you sleep with him? It could be that this is all he ever wanted.