How to split the phone call?

Wife has a habit of not answering the phone and now responding to texts, spending half the day on facebook?

• We got married 5 months ago. Several months before we got married, after being together a year por two, she cheated on me and we split up and both of us saw other people but we got back together because she begged me to come back, and eventually we got married. We've have had a lot of problems recently. She stopped really talking to me, and chewed my head off for nothing or walked away if I tried to talk to her (just like what happened in the 2 or 3 months before we split up the first time). Eventually, she asked for a divorce and we seperated for 2 weeks, mostly her choice. But 2 weeks ago, we worked things out and we were getting along a lot better. And then all of the sudden, it's like no communication whatsoever. All of a sudden she has a habit of not answering the phone and now responding to texts. Its not like she doesn't check her phone or respond to other people. She usually keeps her phone on her and checks it every few couple hours. It seems like its just me. I'll send her a text at 9 AM. No response all day. I'll call her at noon and send her a text when she doesn't pick up saying "hey I called Luv U." No answer, no call back all day. I'll call at 5PM. Nothing. She spends hours on facebook every day all the sudden. She's unelmployed right now, but I don't know why that matters. I don't get her at all. We are getting along fine and then all of a sudden she stone walls me, and starts complaining that I don't have any friends, that my family doesn't like her, that we don't socialize with other couples. I'd love to take her out more, but she usually doesn't want to go out with me. She says she likes to go to bars, but not with me, and she won't go by herself with friends while we're together. She complains we have nothing in common and we don't do anything together. I'm thinking like what do you like to do? Go on facebook? Go to bars without me when we are broke up? Besides, she makes no effort, doesn't want to do anything with me, participate in my interests, and really makes very little effort to have a relationship. At least that's how it seems to me. She still resents me for seeign that othetr girl before we got married, even though she cheated on me before that and was with another man at the same time, and she resnts me for talking bad about her to freinds and family the 2 times we were broke up (really I was just telling the facts). Also I talked to my married ex girlfriend on facebook about a week after we got separated, but it was totally plutonic and in the open, and she had asked for a divorce and wouldn't talek to me for a week at that point. So how should I approach her? How should I deal with this? Why does she do this? It seems liek she doesn't forgive me for anything, doesn't ever consider what she did that provoked me, and doesn't think she ever did anything that was wrong, and that if things aren't going well because of things she did mostly, wants to quit, until of course she decides to take me back or beg me to come back. I'm no saint. I'm not prefect, but I ask forgiveness and I forgive her and she won't forgive and is unappologetic and doesn't seems to even see what she does as wrong, most of the time.

• Answer:

  Text her, "If you're too busy hooking up with other guys over Facebook to answer my texts, I'd appreciate it if you packed your stuff up. Thanks." I really think she's using you for a fallback guy, dude. She's got you and has support, she's not worried about losing you so she's treating you like garbage. Take out the trash, and move on with your life!