Broke up, no contact, she still loves me.. I NEED HELP PLEASE! :(?
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Alright, I'll try and post my story as clear as possible. After a 7 month me (20) and my girlfriend (19) broke up. Why? Because recently we started to argue more and quicker. I guess the break up took place because it was emotional, and we both were sick of argueing.She did mention she wanted it to work like before. Before she took the decision to 'mutual' break up. She imediatly blocked and unfriended me on facebook, and after 2-3 days I asked if we could talk, and so we did. I asked her if she blocked me to get over me easier; she said that wasn't the case, it was something she'd always do and she wouldn't get that sad. (I guess so she doesn't get reminded of me constantly and get sad?) She asked what I'd do if we didn't see each other for a month or 6. I said I didn't like it because I'd be scared one of us would lose feelings or something might happen. I also said that I think we could've spoke it out before breaking up, and found a solution to make things better, especially in communication. After a while, I said I'd care too much for her to drop it like this, and she said she still loved me. She missed being with me, and having nice talks and do things in the evening together. We even laughed about small memories, and such things. After a while, she mentioned the month thing again, and I said I'd wait for her because she's worth it. She said; "Oh you're just saying that.". She was worried we might argue again if we'd come back together, and she didn't knew where she stood. (what does she mean with that?) After a while we ended our conversation because she had to go and that was it. Two days after, I wanted to text her saying I accepted the break up and I think it was the best for both of us, when I noticed right before I texted that she deleted me off Skype. (We used that every day to talk). But I still send the text which said: "You're right, a break up would be the best for both of us". Because I knew I made a mistake by saying I would wait because she's worth it. It's been 1.5 week now since we didn't contact after my send text, and yesterday evening I did the stupid thing of re-adding her on Skype, she saw it, and she probably declined because she appears offline with a ? mark on my skype, and it says 'resend contact request'. This was a foolish thing of me to do, and we didn't had any contact at all since our last talk. She must've seen it and rejected. So now I don't know what to do, and I really want some advise and opinions on this. I accept it if she needs space, and she wants to get back to normal, and preferably a fresh start. Maybe she's confused too right now and needs time. But why did she tell me she loves me, and missed spending nice time together in the evenings.. and then just block me on everything? What is it that I can do? Should I just leave it all be, and let her contact me, or send her a text asking how she's doing, and be all casual. She has no idea how much this hurts, saying you love someone and such and then ice cold blocking everything. Especially after the mistake of me re-adding her on Skype since we haven't said a word or anything at all before that. What is it for me to do, and what might she think right now, or feel? I know I should move on but I'd like to know if I should send a text asking how she's doing, or just leave it be and don't contact at all. Especially concidering the re-adding yesterday, I wonder if I should take a step now. This just leaves me with questions and in doubt. Thanks a lot, if there's any questions I will make sure to answer them.
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Answer:
hi i have a kinda similar stories like yours, i had a 5 yrs relationship with my ex bf. i did what your ex gf did too, i deleted his num, deleted him and blocked him on yahoo. i think as a girl we do this kind of stuff to ease the pain that we are encountering.Its not as easy as 1 2 3 to move on specially if you really love a person. Its takes time.As a girl we dont want our ex to bother us. why she keeps on deleting you and everything coz she wants some space.Just leave her for a while because if you are really meant for each other destiny will lead and back you to each others arms.
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