Stuff to do in the summer holidays?

Mother wants 3weeks a month in the summer?

• I got primary custody 2 years ago due to the way my daughters mother just "is". Its been a LONG road but I won't quit fighting! SO I'm not sure where to start. She gets her every other weekend sat-sun and then summer she gets her sat-tues. She has alternating holidays. We just revised a visitation order for that. She is only to take my daughter when she is there solely because my daughter was getting left with every and anyone for every reason but she was saying she was working all the time which was false. So now she can't take her if she has to work or go anywhere my daughter can't. She now wants to take her for 3 weeks every month in the summer and every year over the 4th of july she is requesting she gets her for a "family vacation" Mind you she got married to a man last year she moved into her home straight out of prison and they already had a falling out because she was cheating on him and during that time she had my daughter staying over night at another mans house. There has never been a family vacation before. I am very involved with my daughter she is 6 I have 2 other children with my current wife one who is gonna be born on the 11th of april and she has 2 other children whom she doesnt have custody of only visits. Shes tryiong to use the whole sibling thing as a way to get the placement like mine don't matter. We do alot in the summer, My daughter is always in stuff ballet, swimming lessons, girl scouts, soccer and this year she wants to play soccer too. when she was at her mothers she did ok bringing her to stuff but of course there were times there would be issues, one of her excuses were shes 5 and she can decide for herself if she wants to go. NOT ACCEPTABLE TO ME. I also think its very important for her to establish a relationship with my soon to be son, My daughter has not had a real relationship with any of her siblings until she moved in with me. I'm just wondering what people think of this. I'm just wondering and scared if people believe she has a chance or what I should do?

• Answer:

  I think you have better chances of winning than her...Three weeks a month!!! No way. That is not ok wiht me. My ex husband gets my son an extra four weeks total in the summer. And it cant last more than a week at a time with one week in between at least.... You already won custody. So i think you should be ok...Just get a lawyer so you can write up all the reason thats it doesnt work for you...Kids need stability and a routine. Three weeks will mess everything up!