How to extract latest reply text from email and cut out previous messages?

What should I do? PLEASE ANSWER?

• I am generally not the kind of person that would do something like this. Write to strangers about my issues and wanting help and advice. But in this case, I find myself needing it more than ever. It is even hard to say it even now. Here it goes: It all started on April 2. I had just got home from work in time to watch the NCAA Semi tournament game Ky Vs. Uconn. I decided to get on my facebook to see what my friends were saying about the game, when I noticed that I had a message from a random person. The message read... "Did you know that your wife is out with her boyfriend?" At first I was in shock, they even named who it was. I sat there and stared at the computer screen for a little while. The message was dated April 1st. At the time that I read the message, my wife was in the kitchen cooking dinner. I wasn't sure what to do about it, but later, when my wife was finished cooking, she came into the living room and sat down beside me. I couldn't resist, so I decided to show her the email and ask her about it. After a few questions, she became very defensive. I grabbed her cell phone, for which she had password protected, and asked for the password. She would not give it to me. Finally, I got her to enter the password in herself, and I looked through the phone. At that time she left, to take her sister to her mothers to pick up an overnight bag. I looked through the phone a little bit, but got distracted, and the password protection came back on. About ten minutes later, I get an email from my service provider saying that her phone had been deactivated. I called them, and also found out that she had placed a password preventing me from getting on the account. Later when she came back, I asked her about the phone and she denied doing it. She blamed it on one of her sisters. She also said she had no boyfriend and that it had to be an April fools joke. Now I know more of the truth. After days of denying and lying, she started to tell short truths. She had deleted all the messages between the two of them on her cell phone. She even cut up the sim card. She deleted all of messages from him on her facebook. So I started looking at the phone records online and noticed phone calls and text messages between the two of them. Starting around mid November thru April 2 (which was the day I found out) There were multiple phone calls and lots of text messages just about every day. Except for the month of Feb. but as far as I know, they could have been doing it on facebook. Since she had lost her phone at that time. When I asked her about that, she first denied that there were that many phone calls and text messages, until I showed her the records. Then she finally admitted it. Saying that it was just her "friend" and that she was just trying to get rid of him as a friend and it was taking a while. I later find out that she lied to me about a trip they made. Her best friend told me that she went to her hometown for her uncle's funeral, but had him drive her. They spent the weekend together with my two kids at her best friends house. She also made the kids keep quiet about him. Telling them that they would not be able to hang out with him anymore. The kids told me a lot about him and gave me plenty of information once I found out. She kept lying for a while, telling half truths, and eventually, gave me more. Like during January-Feb.. she would go to his house once-twice a week, while I was at work. She also said there were no pictures of the two of them together, but after hacking her yahoo account, I found pictures of him and of both of them together. One was with her head up against his shoulder, and the other looked like she was half way in his lap looking at him smiling. I also found some pics of just him. She sent these to her yahoo through her phone and then deleted them off her phone. I also found pics of him in her purse that he had given her. She said that he was giving out pictures to everyone and he gave some to her as well. But I find this hard to believe. Like to add, that finding out this information was very hard. Every time I tried to look into something, she would get very angry and defensive. And then things got really bad. She tried to commit suicide, on more than one occasion. Eventually, I took her to a mental health hospital. She stayed there for five days, during which she was diagnosed as "bi-polar" "ocd" and "manic depressive." She says she loves me. She says that nothing happened sexually between the two of them. She says that she wants to be with me forever. But finding text messages from Dec. saying to her best friend... "She was looking for an apt without me" and a text to the "guy friend" that read "I love you baby. I love you and miss you lots. Do you want me to come over this morning?" Makes it hard for me to understand how she could love me so much. To me, she is my world and I love her with all

• Answer:

  Sounds like your in the same situation I was 15 years ago. You may love her with your all, but she's not giving you the same in return. Don't try to come up with excuses for her actions. There are none. I didn't want to believe it either, but eventually you will respect yourself enough to believe the truth: she does not have your best interest at heart. If anyone should respect you it is your wife. Staying with someone who is untrustworthy and makes you lower yourself to her level by snooping is not good for you. She's a liar and a coward and she's making a fool of you. There will come a time when you realize the truth about her and your self-respect will kick in. When it does, you will understand that you may never understand why and the reason why will no longer matter. You will just accept things as they are and move on. Give yourself the love and respect she isn't. You need to let her go. I let him go and my life took me places I could only dream of when he and I were together. I am truly sorry anyone has to go through this, because no one deserves this kind of treatment. No one.