I met a man online who is married, we had sex. Now I feel this is wrong and want to tell his wife. Good idea?
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I met a man online who is 20 years older then me. We had a purely sexual affair, because the reason is he and his wife aren't intimiate these days. He told me he has 2 kids and his wife knows nothing about what he is doing. I asked him if he loves his wife and he said he does because she is the mother of his children. I feel really bad for his wfie, and I am choosing not to go on with this affair..it is downright wrong what he is doing to her. But instead I want her to know that he is a cheating SOB. I don't know how to contact her, or even know her name. But I was wondering if I do get the chance, if I should??
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Answer:
that is a bad idea, she may be crazy as hell, and that could be your death wish. you stopped the affair but feel bad now. it is too late to feel bad. you already slept with him. lesson learned.
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WTF is wrong with you?? You suddenly get morals after you blow the man off.... If you contact that woman I hope she lays into your a$$!!! she probably already knows what her husband is doing, and he done got rid of you and now you feeling like a fool!!!!
No it is his life. You were a small satifing part of a sexless relationship. It is none of your business to tell his wife. Worry about you and your life. Let him worry about his life.
Don't tell his wife, he will do it again. Learn from your mistake and move on.
Keep your nose out of it. She will find out herself in due time
As much as you may want to save this woman and tell her it's not up to you. The choices he's made are wrong, the same as your decision to sleep with a married father was. You should tell the man how you feel and cut off contact, but the choice to inform the wife is his alone.
You should just move on and don't try to play god. It's none of your business.
What exactly do you hope to accomplish by telling the wife her husband is a cheater? You feel sympathy for her now that you/re had your fill of her husband? You feel a cameraderie for her as a woman? Leave bad enough alone.
Now you want to tell his wife. You have no right to tell her. You're the person who's wrong here and I notice no remorse whatsoever in your question. He's an SOB because of it but you aren't? Well I think you're the real trouble starter in the situation and you had alot of time to consider this behavior before you banged him but now turned self righteous. Since you've turned a new leaf why not seek counseling to find out what's wrong with you since you have his life all figured out.
You've put yourself way up on a pedestal. Your the one that jumped in knowing he was married. If it was only sex as you say, let it go.
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