How To Win Him Back?

How can I win my exgirlfriend back?

• I met this girl a few years ago.we talked forever on line before we met...we hit it off well and eventually hooked up....she fell in love with me...then I left and moved out of state.We stayed hooked up but i didnt see her for 7 months or so...and it kinda faded out....well when she broke it off with me she ended up seeing someone else.I moved back to town and she wouldnt take me back...things got kinda ugly I was pretty ignorant to her and ended up sleeping with her cousin.Then I moved away to LA...Well me and her stayed talking and stayed friends although she is really hurt by things that happened still>>>well she broke up with the guy she was with all this time about 2 months ago...and shes still hurting over that.But I moved back again from LA and am now living with her. She insists that we only stay friends.I am constantly up her *** and bugging her about being together.Her ex comes over once and a while to hang out cause she is still friends with him...but i get pretty upset and it shows..She talks to him alot....I know it takes time to get over things and shes not yet but I dont think she wants to be in a relationship with him anymore. Its hard living with her and not being able to be with her.I pretty much take care of her...buy her everything she needs and wants, pay her bills for her...etc...I love her so much and want this to work out but shes really frigid to me...I know shes still hurt that I slept with her cousin and other things and not over her ex...but what can I do to win back her love.I feel like I have been acting desperate and actually pushing her away cause shes getting mad at the way I act when she talks to her ex...we spend lots of time together and travel all over the country together...but there is just no romance in her eyes...I want that back.She says she just wants to be single and not worry about a relationship right now.I talked to her last night and she said that she isnt completely closed minded to us being together again someday but right now she dont know what she wants...that she still has a lot of issues to get over with the other guy and so forth...living with her...should I make myself scarce more and quit pressuring her about being together and just be friends with her? See other girls and just move on quit worrying about it...I feel like I am a perfect match for her..and we have alot in common...what can I do to make her want me again?

• Answer:

  do nothing.if this girl loves you and wants you she will let you know.if you let a bird free,if it comes back,it means it wants to be with you.if it stays away,well that is that.hope ive been of some help.life is wonderful,but i beleive it is mapped out for us all,good luck.