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Should my husband allow his ex to handle payments from our home?

  • Hi there, here is the situation, I am a very recently married woman that lives in a big home with my sickly father in law.Before i was married I lived in that home for about two and a half years or so. At the time, my husband had been divorced about four years and his ex wife was handeling all of his father's paper work as far as all of his medical bills and everything that has to do with his income. I really do not trust her because of something that happened a while ago due to monies that she was nearly fired over. I do not understand why the family allows her to deal with the money even after what happened, this means that she is open to sol security numbers, and situations in our home. I asked him if he would rather me do the paper work but he said she was too far into the paperwork that it would not make any sense to take it over beacsue there are four years of information accumulated, but if I would rather do it that is fine as well. I really do not feel comfortable with her handling things in OUR household because this is no longer her place. I know that I have only been married for a very short time, but she is controling and I feel she wants some control over the family even still. What should I do in a situation like this? I welcome any answers and advice.

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    kick that b***** out. she has no reason to be there now that u can handle things.

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You really need to talk to your "HUSBAND". That is not really her place now and your husband should respect you. You are his wife now and I know that is uncomfortable for you. Let him know that you're not married to her anymore and it's making you very uncomfortable.

If you are not comfortable, tell your husband. It is a little odd having your ex wife handle YOUR family finances.

I would have to give you my up most respect in handling this in a very calm way. Personally, I would tell my husband to drink some really strong coffee and WAKE UP! I would make sure that she does NOT have any important information (SS# etc.) and that she stays as far away from my family as much as possible. Your a woman, go with that nagging feeling that is telling you "something ain right here" and go with it. Make that decisive step sis. Your husband needs to respect how you feel. I would not be okay w/ some control freak con artist having her presence disrupt MY home, yeah right. Good luck sis.

If the family wants the ex to cont. taking care of ex father-in-law, I am sure she could do it in her home. Easier or not.She can get filing cabinets or what ever sheneeds into home as well as yours. As a matter of fact it would be a lot more cconvenientfor her.She can do it at her cconvenience I think she just wants to be kept in the loop, so she can be part of the family.GET HER OUT

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