Confronting Husband about nude photos?

So what's wrong with that.....!

Nothing wrong with watching porn is better then a dateing site or what ever interact site he injoys. If I was u I will let him buy porn or let him watch it from youporn or pornhub. Let him do his thing then he will be find and less crabby

You need to get over yourself and your holier than thou attitude. Men need sex and lots of it. You are not giving your husband any pleasure-only dishing it out when you see fit. Meanwhile his genetic make-up is telling him he needs sex. Once your baby is born you will stop having sex with him altogether. It has nothing to do with being devout Christians. It is how men are wired. They need sex-much more often than women. All guys think of sex with other women-as many DIFFERENT women as possible. Sometimes they even think of sex with men. They will deny it if you ask,But they still do it. Your dad did it and your grandfather too. Once the baby is born and you shut him off completely you must know that he will easily find it elsewhere. You should apologize to your husband for snooping on the computer. Tell him what you saw and get it out in the open. Don't let it fester and make you more unhappy than you already are. It's ridiculous of you to think HE did something wrong.He is just acting the way nature intended him to act.

watch the nude photos with him. then both will feel good. if you cant beat them join them.

post the pics. we'll make a decision and get back to you.

Well it's normal to not have a sex drive while pregnant. It really is different with everyone. Who knows if after you will regain it back. It could be months, even years. I was in your situation with a no sex drive and it's not pleasant. I tried dieting and exercising but it didn't do anything. Until I tried this natural herbal enhancer which is meant to increase the sex drive along with other things I've noticed. It's a topical oil called Hersolution Gel which is like an instant libido boost. Along with that my sensations are just blasting and my orgasms are then best. Read up about it at herenhancement.com where I saved on it at the time. It got better with every application. I was skeptical at first but the companies return policy made me commit. From what I remember you have to try out for a couple months but then after that you can return it if it doesn't work. It would work great for your situation considering your pregnant and theres no need to swallow anything. Well good luck and I hope this helps.

First off, I would like to state that I am of Christian upbringing. That said, at this state I'm a bit confused, as I believe a lot of things I was taught but I look that them in a different light now. Regardless, I have some advice you may find helpful. You must confront him about it, and the main reason why is this: it hurts you. While confronting him may invoke problems, not confronting him is just letting a time bomb keep ticking away. It will more than likely lead to problems later on, and if he really cares about you, he will go through the steps necessary. He may even be hurting himself, not being able to resist said photos, and hating himself for it and going through multiple stages of self-hate, self-denial, making excuses for himself - then the cycle continues, all the while he can't stay away from it. I know how that feels.... A lot of the posts here are criticizing or blaming you, like this is your fault: don't believe them, they are wrong in every way possible. HE is supposed to keep his urges under control; HE is supposed to love, protect, and provide for you no matter what happens. Those who act like a man needs sex are mistaken: hunger, thirst, shivering from cold, or sensations of pain are signs of a NEED. Being horny is a sign of a very powerful WANT, but a want and nothing more. It's an urge, like for a klepto to steal from a store or an alcoholic to drink, or a smoker to smoke: hard to resist, but it can be done. You are automatically at a disadvantage in this day and age: as a woman, culture belittles you down to a slab of meat, meant to please men whenever they wish with no regard for you as a person. This and the fact that men are very visually stimulated and culture is okay with men leaving for another woman without much rhyme or reason puts you up to bat against the team that gets paid to win at all costs. Most of the comments here are shaped by society and believe that you are at fault, when in fact it is him at fault Pornography does cause problems in a marriage, don't think it doesn't. I am a man, and I am addicted to pornography. I have tried many times to quit, but ones will-power is not enough. 90%, if not 100%, of all men have been introduced to pornography at some point in time. Lots of people say it has no impact, and I have not been in a relationship since being addicted, but that is one of the reasons: I'm afraid to get involved because of what it has done to me. I can't help but compare ordinary women to porn stars, I put their looks and figure over their personality, and I can't get the images out of my head. I'm working on it everyday, but the struggle is so hard. I didn't get help until I was very deep, and now I have a huge hole to climb out of. Nip this in the bud, before the weed blooms. If he is willing, the next step is to talk with your pastor. I hope this helps you, and I will be praying for you.