19 year old involved with 38 yr old married Police Officer. Need Advice...?

he isnt going to leave her. it sucks, i know. imagine if he dumped his gf and went to you. then a few years into your realtionship he cheats on you for a younger girl. he is only doing it to get some ***.

If he loved you he'd end his relationship with her and he hasn't. He's getting double the sex (and hot sex from you) so why would he ever stop unless you ask him to. That's the trouble with hooking up with a guy that's already taken. You have to let go or move on to someone who's single. Edit: Why should you be the one to tell HIS girlfriend about your relationship with him? That's his job, since she's his girlfriend and not yours!

sometimes people say things they dont mean, to take advantage of a situation, if he lives with her its for a reason, and if you do things she doesnt its for a reason as well, think about it.

He is using you. The both of you maybe. You're a homewrecking slut for sleeping with him, knowing his situation, and he's a cheating douchebag. You can report me if you want, but even Yahoo Answers personnel know it's true. My advice? Leave him the fcuk alone. You are his playtoy and nothing else, and his relationship shouldn't have to end because of a toy. Especially one that buttfcuks him.

You are his personal sex toy. He doesn't love you, he's not gonna leave the girlfriend for you. Screwing with a man in a relationship never ends good for the "other girl" Break it off and find a man who can give himself completely to you.

I'm telling you right now from experience. A man at 38 will not be interested in a 19 year old for anything but sex. Get real, if he loved you.. he would be with you. He has a girlfriend...be mature and find someone else. You're going to end up getting hurt badly. So get out of this situation.. asap. This never ends well. Why would you get involved with someone who is already taken anyways? That's kind of rude. Don't encourage a cheater. I want to make a comment to your additional details. I feel so strongly about this subject because I do understand how someone can get into this situation. But only the falling for the older man part... I really can't understand the whole instigating a relationship with a man who is already involved...but i suppose people have different morals. Anyways... this is how a lot of women get hurt... they can have a good head on their shoulders prior to the relationship but once they get into it..it's like all common sense is lost. But either way you have all these people who are looking at this from a non-bias perspective and they are telling you that this isn't going to end well for you. Don't put yourself in this position. Leave the relationship while you still have your dignity. Don't tell his Girlfriend!!! It's not your place to break off HIS relationship. It will backfire. If you're willing to put yourself in this situation then you're just going to have deal with the fact that it's his decision to end the relationship with his girlfriend...not yours. You've done enough to break them up by sleeping with her boyfriend! But the odds are that you are going to end up being the bad guy and get your heart broken. You need to use some common sense. Step back from this relationship pretend that it's not you involved and look at the facts. I really would hate to see your self-esteem get ruined by this. But I suppose better to learn now then later. Like I said... people's morals are different I suppose... I know I sure wouldn't be able to sleep well at night knowing that I'm a home wrecker. Especially if I got my heart broken because of lack of common sense.

It's females like you that give the rest of us a bad name. How can you find it in your heart to not only disrespect yourself but to get in a situation that can bring a lot of trouble to innocent people. Shame on you both and you truly deserve an *** whooping. Mark my words, he don't want you and you are going to end up wishing you never got involved with the dirt bag even though you both deserve eachother at this point. I can assure you, you won't be the first or last he cheats on his girlfriend with. What goes around comes around sooner or later,hope for you, it's sooner. So this is how you repay your mother, she goes to work to provide for you and keep a roof over your head and dinner at the table not to mention that she probably pays for your education so you can go out and be a slut.

If he loves you why dont you live with him? If he loves you why does he still **** that other girl? If he loves you why is it a secret? You know why? Because he doesn't.

Most likely the whole situation will break your heart but the only way to know what he wants to do is to ask him face to face. Until you do that there really is nothing anybody here can say to help you. Maybe it'd be best to ask him when you're using the strap on on him since he can only submit.