How do you know when you are in love with someone? What can I do to fall in love?
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In my last relationship, for the first time I experienced what true love was. I gave my heart to this guy only for him to destroy it. After our break up I was single for 3 years. Then I met a gentleman who treats me like wonderful. I love him but I do not believe I am in love with him, and I want to be. I do not even know if I truly know how to love again. Any advice out there? My heart is hurting and I need help. He deserve someone who can truly love him and for some reason I am incapable right now.. : -( I have really tried for 6 years to fall in love with him it just wont happen for me.
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Answer:
When you're really in love, really, really in love, you won't have to ask this question because you'll just know.
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You don't go out and find love. Love finds you when you are least expecting it. It appeals to your naked core. That's why when it hits, you just know. We get hurt when we try to control love. Love itself does not hurt! You are not sure about your feelings because the so called love that you have had in the past hurt. Something about this guy doesn't hurt, yet he's doing all the right things. Weird ain't it? Take it slow and see how it goes. Love is trying to show you what it looks and feels like but because you never had it, it looks and feels foreign to you. Take your time because that's the one thing love has plenty of. When I first meet people I always ask, "Are you happy?" Most people are usually stumped for answers. Those same people would kill to have what you have because for them that is love. Good luck on your journey and enjoy the ride.
You should never TRY to love someone. I happens or it doesn't. Dont cheat you or him out of complete happiness. It will happen to both of you eventually.Trust me ... you will love again.
You cant make yourself fall in love, it just happens. If you think about it too much and analize it too much then you will miss out on one of the best things you can ever imagine.
You will no when its love and there will be no question or doubt. To fall in love, be around people, do things you enjoy. Along with being kind and respectful of others. One more thing have enough nerve to tell that one, that they are absolutely wonderful.
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