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How do I find the right guy?

How can an average guy find the right, nice and kind woman?

  • I am a 25 year old guy. Just finished my post grad in 2011 and doing some work now. I have never had a girlfriend before. Most girls in high school and uni. were just looking for money, good looks or fun. And those relationships seldom last...and I wanted someone to really love me. My friend in uni. got dumped by his girlf because she had found a sexier guy with a sports car and family business while my friend was just a technician studying to be an engineer. They were planning on marriage and I was really shocked because my friend was a really nice guy. So I've never experienced being with a woman. Anyway, I'm on my own now. My parents had sponsored my uni. but now they have to plan for retirement and old-age funds. At present I'm making enough for basic needs as well as some fun. I don't have a lot of money though. I've also always kept in good shape by long distance running. So its not a problem finding women. But I want to find the RIGHT woman. I really don't care how she looks. doesn't matter what age or race, 90 or 300 pounds, tall short....nothing matters. I just want her to be nice, kind, loving and faithful. I would also be very nice to her. Buy her nice presents, give nice massages and take her out...treat her very well. But how is it possible to find such a woman?? I only know my mother and two aunts who are such wonderful women. They have been married for 30 years +. All other people are either divorcing or staying in bad relationships.

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    Interesting part is the type of girl you describe is me.. I am 22 ...It so hard now at days to find good women that not in it for the money who believe in marriage should be until death do you part..that there with you when your sick, happy etc..My brother is same boat as you.. There should be some out there but is like finding a needle on hay stack...very hard to find...Well good luck in your search...try to volunteer in homeless shelter or join chuch maybe you have some luck there...Good luck...

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You can't possibly know who's the right woman until you get out there and start dating. She can look perfect on paper, but then once you start dating find out you're incompatible. And then the opposite can happen, she can seem all wrong for you, but then once you get to know her you find many wonderful qualities that you didn't see at first. And those things you thought would be such a huge problem turn out to be no big deal. It would be nice to just find the right girl and be with her until death do us part, without any wasted time or heartache in your part. But the dating world just ain't like that. It's full of rejection, risk, and heartache. You may have to go through a lot of girls before you find a good one. And there really is no "right" girl for you. Just ones that work better or worse. You'll not find the flashing light over her head that says "the girl for me". She becomes your girl over time, as you grow together and adapt to each other. It's as much what you make of it and the time you invest as it is in choosing the right person. And then even the best of choices and intentions can end in a breakup or divorce. You do the best you can, but realize you don't have complete control over your romantic future. Dump the perfectionism and allow yourself to make mistakes. Perfectionism has no place in relationships between fallible, f'd up human beings, which we all are. If you hold onto the right-girl concept, the moment anything starts to go wrong in your relationship, you'll just assume you were mistaken in your choice, thinking this is obviously not the right girl, and you won't work to solve the problem. The problem-free relationship doesn't exist, as my marriage-couselor friend keeps telling me.

Nice, kind, loving and faithful people, men and women, are found more commonly in church than other types. I recommend membership in the denomination of your choice.

You sound desperate :( , Christian girls are good find a girl in a church or congregation Advantist,Mormon ,Jw , there good girls , girls that believe in GOD are not like the ones you have meet before :)

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