Why did she show me a flirty text conversation she is having with someone else?
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So I'm seeing this one girl and tonight she surprised me by driving an hour to my place to give me a couple presents she got for me and to just see me for a couple hours (ultimately she's going to get almost no sleep because of it) and I was blown away thinking how sweet it was and how awesome she is. Then we go into the kitchen and she's messing around on her phone for a second and then she's like "look at this!" - and proceeds to show me this text conversation she's been having with another guy she knows from her class (who is clearly interested in her) and she's being very flirty with him in this text conversation while he's clearly hitting on her!! It kind of surprised me and killed the mood for me and she could tell right away and was like "oh you're not jealous are you?" and I was honest and said "well yeah I am a bit jealous." She seemed really happy and even made a comment "awww you do like me!" after I said that. I asked her why she showed me that and she said "wouldn't it be worse if I didn't show you? I'm not interested in him and am just being open." Anyway, she seemed happy I got a little jealous (which I usually don't at all) but I was still kind of upset, and still am to a degree. What the hell? Why is she having flirty text messages with other dudes if she likes me so much? Especially if it's clear the guy is interested and hitting on her? She said she's just being nice and doesn't want to come off as a *****, but I don't buy that - personally it seems she was liking the attention and completely contributing, being quite flirty. Was she just wanting to see me get jealous? Should I be very wary? I'm not sure how to feel about it but do feel like backing off some to be honest....
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Answer:
I want to say she was trying to make you jealous, a blunt way to put is would be girls can be bitches. I know I can be a *****, and sorry to say guys just gotta live with it or be gay. Maybe in her mind it's her way to keep you interested. She might think guys want what others can't have, so it'll cause you to be more into her. Hint why she probably said "Awww you do like me!" Or a test of some sort to see how you'd react, girls are weird bro. Haha.
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childish game playing on her part i'd back off too she wanted you to be jealous she clearly loves attention and you dont know if she is playing the other guy the same way she is you i could never be with someone who took twisted pleasure in making me jealous
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