Why did she show me a flirty text conversation she is having with someone else?
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So I'm seeing this one girl and tonight she surprised me by driving an hour to my place to give me a couple presents she got for me and to just see me for a couple hours (ultimately she's going to get almost no sleep because of it) and I was blown away thinking how sweet it was and how awesome she is. Then we go into the kitchen and she's messing around on her phone for a second and then she's like "look at this!" - and proceeds to show me this text conversation she's been having with another guy she knows from her class (who is clearly interested in her) and she's being very flirty with him in this text conversation while he's clearly hitting on her!! It kind of surprised me and killed the mood for me and she could tell right away and was like "oh you're not jealous are you?" and I was honest and said "well yeah I am a bit jealous." She seemed really happy and even made a comment "awww you do like me!" after I said that. I asked her why she showed me that and she said "wouldn't it be worse if I didn't show you? I'm not interested in him and am just being open." Anyway, she seemed happy I got a little jealous (which I usually don't at all) but I was still kind of upset, and still am to a degree. What the hell? Why is she having flirty text messages with other dudes if she likes me so much? Especially if it's clear the guy is interested and hitting on her? She said she's just being nice and doesn't want to come off as a *****, but I don't buy that - personally it seems she was liking the attention and completely contributing, being quite flirty. Was she just wanting to see me get jealous? Should I be very wary? I'm not sure how to feel about it but do feel like backing off some to be honest....
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Yeah, it's possible she wanted to get some kind of reaction from you, or to give you the subtle warning that you'd better not take her for granted. But the reason could also be less ominous. Perhaps she feels the flirtation is so meaningless that she really didn't think it was a big deal-- showed you because she thought it was funny or ironic, given that she only has eyes for you. I don't think you should worry. The fact that she showed you indicates she's not taking it seriously. In fact, for most people, the very definition of cheating is doing something you wouldn't share with your partner. She's showing you. If that's all there is and she's showing you, who cares? Especially when she went so out of her way to spend time with you.
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As a girl, I'd say that yes, she probably wants you to get jealous but that she's quite silly as well and that yes, you should be a little weary, and should also just give it to her and say, politely, that you'd wish she stopped egging the other guy on cuz it looks bad and though she may not realize what she's doing, she was acting really flirty with him and thats not on. Or something like that :P
she's what you call a c0cktease, dude. a game player that loves seeing how she can manipulate dudes. keep away from chicks like her.
Yeah she wants to make you jealous
She's not off the market. Just because she's dating you doesn't mean she's ready to settle down. Don't try to control her. You're just going to have to understand that you may not be the only player in town just because you're dating her. If things eventually do get more serious, then you should expect her to be monogamous, but in the meantime, she's living her life.
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