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How To Get Your Husband Back?

How Can My Husband And I Get Back On Track?

  • My husband and I somehow have gotten off track. It seems like all we do is argue, fight and disagree. Once things start getting better something happens and throws everything off track again. We love each other but we're not happy at the moment. I know that marriage has it's ups and downs; we are having a hard time getting up again.

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    Re-cooping from this is not an easy one. It seems you have been fighting for so long that it is becoming part of your everyday life. That is not good. Not for the both of you and certainly not good for your kids if you have any. If they keep seeing you this way, they will grow up thinking this is the way married couples are supposed to act. Do you want that for them? I didn't think so. On the other hand, since you did not mention any kids, maybe there are not any. If that is the case, this is still unhealthy for your relationship. You two need counseling. OR Here is another idea. When the two of you are not fighting, book a vacation. A cruise is a good place to start. There is one more thing you can do. Sit down and give 20 reasons why you married him. Ask him to do the same thing about you. That is where marriage counselors will start. When you get your answers and you see they are all wonderful and he sees that in your answers, go parking. LOL

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my advise cause i've gone threw the same situation and to get angry or so makes all worse, so i then showed him that my world is not just him, and started to do my own thing and if he did'nt want to join i went on my own. me and my 2 kids went on as normal and did'nt change our plans when he didn't join us and so he realised after a while that i am not living my whole life around him and sit and wait for him and allways be there, and now he has changed cause he realised that i am not like allways just gonna sit and wait for him and my life is going on and i am happy with or without him

zenè

well this might sound like no fun but we just started having more sex and in turn gave us more time together which is great. and even if you don't want to do that do it anyways don't let hubby know you don't want to that is the best way for us to fix our problems

Morgan J

I would suggest a marriage counselor, but it has to be one that you both like and agree on. (that in it'self may take some time). If either of you would just stop talking instead of making smart remarks and arguing, it would help. Maybe you could take the initiative. Of course, saying you're sorry really helps difuse any situation. There is always hope. Hang in there.

Sandra T

My relationship just went through this, and you need to get at the heart of what is going on between you. Try spending an evening discussing what is going on. It may take several converations to get to the root of the problem, but it will be worth it in the end. We got so caught up in day to day life, that we lost sight of each other. Slow down and communicate. Good Luck.

J Law

You BOTH need to make a conscience effort to pick your battles and not fight over the small silly things.....Is there something that is causing stress in your relationship? Something much bigger...that causes you both to get upset over the smallest of things? If so...then you need to address that issue....

ndnqt1966

Counselling is a waist of time. I you two really love each other forget the difference and love each other.

Gary N

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